Do you have anyone you share your kinks and interests with

Yes!

 

I share with my wife. We enjoy acting out some of the fantasies. Alot of the scenarios involve mfm situations, we are thinking of looking for a third in the future.

 

We talked about her fantasies for a long time before acting them out. It was her sex talk with her girlfriends, that lead her to a man to fulfill her fantasy.

 

I am the one that starts the conversations about a third person. But, my wife had to attend an over night certification class and was approached by an attractive man. When I asked her if she saw anyone she like while there and to my surprise she said yes! This is the first time she has ever been approached by someone and was attracted to them! We have looked for him at events that we attend that correspond with the certification she obtained but have been unsuccessful at finding him.

 

Sounds like you are on track. Even though my girlfriend is the one who told me she wanted to try another man, we were over a year before she did it. A couple of near but not all the way. Hope your first experience works out for you. My girl always referred to her first other man was the best, maybe because it was new or he was that good.

 

Me and an old friend from school are often talking about what we like, we do still have a good wank Infront of each other watching porn as well

 

My k-buddy who is visiting at the end of this month has e mailed me and has suggested a bit of action which neither of us have indulged with anyone. She wants to fuck me with a strap- on. ( She will shop for one over here) I am not entirely sure she is serious though and may be just teasing me knowing I would find the fantasy arousing)

 

Guess you going to find out

 

I have only shared all my kinks with most of you all.In person people like face to face i am tight lipped.What wierd is the more i try some kinks i find out they didnt do it for me.Well sobriety has slowed me down alot,as in im not hunting down dicks like i used too.Not saying dicks are kink but my inhibitions are high as ever.

 

My kink buddy and I have that M.A.D. thing going on and it was spawned from an impromptu alcohol influenced sex chat . We are friends from a social circle but never actually coupled up ( although relatively recently we fooled around a bit exploring some of our secret kinks but it is mostly a phone or email chat thing as we live a very long distance away in separate continents) We have both confessed some of our kinky sexcapades and fantasies that do not wish to be common knowledge with most other people we know. We totally trust the confidentiality of each other.

 

ps she has seen me naked and I have seen her naked but thus far our one to one in the flesh activities together are masturbatory ( 2 occasions)

 

One of my exes whom I still have a just friends relationship with told me recently that her and a couple of her female friends ended up having a semi drunken banter about some of their past bfs sexual prowess ( or lack of) . She told me that without mentionining my name she told them how one of her exes had the tiniest penis she had ever seen. She knows about my sph fetish and knew this would be a massive turn on for me even if I was still anonymous. I was horny and posted a message that I dont mind if she tells them who this tiny dicked ex was. However I subsequently had second thoughts about this particular exposure because I realized that one of those women knew who I was but probably didnt know I have a tiny cock. While the situation is definitely a turn on for me it is also an actual embarrassment otherwise. I sent her a message to not expose my shortcomings by name but it it is too late. Despite my sph thing I am somewhat secretive about who in my social sphere knows about it. I have to expect my cover may be blown in the gosdip mill but it is my horny careless fault and I will have to adjust to the fact that a wider range of people I know will know. I guess it may be very slightly akin to coming out of the closet. Even if I dont know for certain who in my sphere will hear the gossip I kind of expect it will become common knowledge. I will adjust I am sure and regardless I will get a fetish sex kick from it even if it is somewhat uncomfortable as well. C'est la vie. I might just add another kink buddy or two from this faux pas. Cant negate the exposure anyway.

 

ps it actually is a case of a fantasy scenario that I enjoyed as a fantasy but didnt necessarily wish it to be a reality.

 

She lands in the UK this Friday. We exchanged e mails on the aforementioned subject yesterday. She brought up the subject and she is definitely up for it but she has added an extra bit of kit other than shopping for a strap on - she wants me to wear panties! I said she will have to do the shopping for that and the strap on as I may be up for it myself but a bit shy of going that public. She knows how small my penis is but I had to give her instructions as to the size of panties I need to fit. I also warned her too go big but not too big as far as the strap on goes ( I am a novice)

 

Who I share with, for the most part my wife, and my best friend, but even he doesn’t know it all, and just recently a guy on here, it’s nice to have a chat buddy that has a common interest and is non judgmental.

 

It definitely nice not being judged

 

Thank you for sharing! Happy for you both!

 

My sexcapades for the better part of the last couple of decades are like yourselves not known about in my wider social circles and I too enjoy talking about things in this and other similar forums ( although HipForums is my favourite - I have never been trolled here or derided like has happened in some other forums - it doesnt bother me much but it isnt what I want to be putting up with - more of a nuisance than an angst thing)

 

My sex partners

 

Thats cool