I want to have a career and a steady job and I want to get married to a girl I do not necessarily love, but at least feel comfortable with. Then I want to buy a house for the two of us and have two cars. A big one for me and a smaller one for her. I also want two children; a boy and a girl. Then I want to retire at 65 and hopefully I can do some gardening until I die at 76. Maybe even pick up another hobby, like playing bridge. My wife has to live two years longer, so she can mourn my death and then die herself so we will be reunited in heaven.
just cause she is the wife, she should get a smaller car ? is she also suppose to stay at home, be a housewife, cook, clean and take care of the kids ?
Because its not fair. I myself, wont ever cook or clean. I am not even sure I want to have kids. Maybe just one, a boy. But still, I cant imagine myself as a housewife doing whatever they do...I wouldnt be happy. But, hey, as long as men are happy...
Well, even though I have a degree and hopefully will eventually get another one and hopefully then work part time outta the house.... I'm not really interested in working for pay. I would much rather raise kids and cook delicious meals everyday and stay home and clean and decorate.... haha..... it's not like I'd be bored or stay HOME all the time.... you can take kids fun places and stuff.....
No, I do want to get married. But we will be equal. I will work cause I want too. I am not gonna spend 6 years in college for nothing. we will hire someone to do the cooking and cleaning, but she wont be young or goodlooking, of course. And I will be the perfect wife - smart, educated, always nice and dressed up.