Do You Get Hit On By Underage People?

Any compliment feeds my ego! hhahaha.

My friend used to have a t-shirt that said "Flattery will get you Everywhere" haha

 

I'm not into to underage girls so...no. But when I was younger and it was the opposite...sure...it fed my ego. Of course it did.

 

Awwwwwwww x

 

It's not flattering to me at all when it happens. Flattery doesn't really work on me, but genuine compliments from people I'm attracted to, are nice.

 

The difference between being flirty and creepy is your level of attractiveness to the other person.

 

Not necessarily. I've been creeped out by attractive people before.

 

I have to agree with you because I have actually creeped out people in the past.

good point.

 

Well...being in college, the answer is yes...

however, I do enjoy hitting on older women haha :sunny:

 

i have to shine them on because i'm too paranoid to do anything else, and i really feel its completely wrong that we live in a culture where we have to feel that way.

and i blame certain fanatics who are very loud but don't represent the souls of even a fraction of themselves, let alone anyone else, for it being that way.

age alone, should not be a factor in anything. only things like mental compitance and responisbility should.

 

I'm 26 and starting again at a university where the ratio of women to men is 9:1, so I tend to get hit on more than I'm used to. I've been married for 2 years and have been with my wife for the last 9, so sometimes I can be really oblivious to it and don't realize until later that a girl was hitting on me. I assume it's just friendly conversation, but sometimes I worry that I end up leading them on. Now if I think that is happening, I find a way to casually mention my wife and that tends to clear things up.

 

It happened a number of years ago but there was this 14 year old girl who had a crush on me. Her family lived two houses down and one day while I was in the front yard raking leaves she comes strolling over wearing a loosely fitting tee shirt and a short skirt. She’s walking her dog and deliberately bends over allowing me a good view of her breasts, nipples included, and then she squats in such a way it’s clear she isn’t wearing any panties. Although I was 30 at the time I could probably pass for 19 and I’m guessing that’s probably what she thought. It took every ounce of willpower I had to ignore her proposition and now when I look back; I feel good about myself.

Hotwater

 

Underage girls think I'm a scary hairy old man.

I have had a 19 year old lie about her age though.

 

When I used to raving the parties were all ages and I would often find myself in the company of young ladies that were high on drugs and dressed in nothing but their underwear, who were more then eager to grope, kiss and dance with you just because you were "nice" to them. But yeah ummm I'm pretty sure they were all over 18

:leaving:

 

^^^ Prostitots FTL. uke:

 

Lol. Now thats a word a havent heard in a long time.

Beware of Ptots!

 

I haven't been to a party with ptots or gogo dancers in years lol. Dat Colorado warehouse underground ftw.

 

yup those were the days. when we could party all night till the sun came up and didn't have a care in the world.

 

Yup, it happened when I was teaching sand subbing. I was oblivious at first until I realized what they were trying to do.

 

Nobody under 40 has hit on me since I was 30 that I'm aware of. Now that am almost 65 yrs old and 60-70lbs overweight nobody of ANY age has hit on me in decades. And since I suck beyond compare at reading social cues and norms I'm unlikely to notice if if someone does. Except for one older gal who was chest high and shaped like a hay mound. She was blatant enough that some smar@$$ young guy roasted me about her behavior. In front of other young kids, too. I told him "No, she hurts my eyes" and left it at that. The other young gal's mouth dropped and her eyes about popped outa' her pretty young head. I guess I might've been a bit blunt, but these things happen when you poke a fuzzy old bear.

 

if i do, i'm usually too socially oblivious to even realize it.
it does make me smile if when i do notice.
it also makes me feel strongly that this whole idea, of what i would call age aparthied, is what is wrong.
i mean i realize real harm can be caused by anything that goes beyond a hug, but really, is that what everything has to be about?
sex or money or some other kind of "owning"?
so really my social oblivion is a kind of self protection in that regard.
do people really expect each other to "card" each other every time they smile?