Do you get a warning that anal is on the menu or does your partner just get into it? We talk about it first, so there are no real chances of an unpleasant incident. If I know, I make sure Im prepared for some good Clean fun. Even if I intend on some self pleasure, I like to prepare. There is no room for company back there when Im getting ready for a good assfucking.
There's a word for Just getting into it without warning. "Non-Consensual." Any kind of sexual act without consent is a big No-No.
I always prepare for anal since that's usually the goal. If it turns out to be just oral, no problem. It's all good.
That isn't what I meant. Do you like being properly prepared for anal , before doing it, or do you just deal with the consequences?
When fucking the women in the ass that I've been with they all eventually asked for it being I just rimmed their ass for 20 minutes while rubbing their clit. We never discussed it beforehand; it just took place in the heat of passion. For myself, if I'm wanting fucked in the ass, I certainly plan for it with a deep cleansing beforehand.
A woman will let you know if she is wanting anal once you start licking that asshole. You'll get a serious "NO" right away, or you'll hear her begin to moan in pleasure as she bucks her hips in enjoyment. Once I know she is enjoying it, it makes eating her asshole even more pleasurable for me before sliding my cock inside. My present wife was never into anal, but my "suck buddies" wife loves to be rimmed for 20-30 minutes before getting a good deep anal fucking as I eat her pussy and asshole at the same time, she has orgasms from just eating her pussy, so her vaginal fluids make for great anal lube as I lick it back to her asshole to then work myself inside her.
Usually it's been discussed before. If I'm rimming her or working her asshole, she's already told me what she likes and doesn't like so when I get her into that position, she knows what's coming and she's probably been stretched pretty good before I push it in.
I always want it and being engaged with multiple guys would probably indicate as such, but I still make a comment that includes the words “my three holes”
You misunderstood me. I meant do you get to prepare for the occasion or just get into it? I had a gf who always prepared when she wanted ass play otherwise it was" off base" or "closed during maintenance."
Anyone that enjoys receiving anal sex should prepare beforehand. A deep cleansing of the anus is recommended. I do so anytime I am wanting it or even suspect it may happen. When I get on all fours for him, I am opening myself up for both of our pleasures as I want to be fucked as much as he wants to fuck me, and a deep cleansed ass is an enjoyable fuck. My man has a 9 1/2" cock so I ALWAYS prepare for him and any others who care to enjoy my ass that day/afternoon/evening. I love being fucked in the ass.
Problem is there are a lot of bottoms and very few tops.I have bottom buddies that I get together with and it's dildos and dick sucking