Do women enjoy anal

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by johnnyuk, Jun 27, 2010.

  1. Victoria1987

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    My partner would probably highly disagree with that. She's a lesbian and she loves giving me anal with a strap on (I'm certainly not opposed to the act either). It's more of a psychological/dominance thing than a physical pleasure thing, though.
     
  2. Jimmy11

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    good advice!!
     
  3. sextant

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    Futebine Loved ur story !!!
     
  4. silk896

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    Do women like anal?
    Some do, some don't - I know it's a cop-out answer but that's about as close as you're going to get.

    the fact that it seems to be practised more widely today than in past decades/generations perhaps suggests more women are "opening " themselves to it. (no pun intended) and hence more are liking it.

    I do!
     
  5. Mike Suicide

    Mike Suicide Sweet and Tender Hooligan

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    Not a cop out...it's true, not every woman can do anal. Just like not every guy can dunk the ball like Kobe Bryant.
     
  6. Triple Ace

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    Asking if women enjoy anal is like asking if women enjoy Chinese food. Of course each person is individual and will find different things arousing.

    But if you're asking if woman CAN enjoy anal, meaning can they orgasm well the answer is yes, especially if combined with clitoral stimulation it can be quite orgasmic for them.

    My wife pretty much requires clitoral stimulation to cum even with vaginal, but she says anal with clitoral produces the most intense orgasms. The first time she came from anal she cried. At first I thought she was in pain or something so I stopped thrusting but then she started bucking her back side on to my dick then I knew she was enjoying it.

    I'm just so lucky that I got a wife with a big ol' Latina booty that loves anal. I almost never get blow jobs because my wife doesn't like giving head, which I don't mind. I haven't had one in years but I have anal sex all the time so it's not a bad trade off.

    Just about every woman gives head but it's pretty hard to find a woman who prefers anal especially one with a nice bubble booty. We have anal a lot more than we have vaginal.

    Even after all these years I STILL can't believe it when I see my dick splitting her big butt cheeks. My favorite moment besides when I cum is the initial penetration. It's impossible to describe how good if feels and looks to open up an ass with your dick, especially when you hear those moans of pain and pleasure as her ass stretches to let your head in.

    Those first few minutes of anal can be as tight as a bear trap before the butt finally submits to you forcing her buns apart with your cock and it relaxes.
     
  7. BuffyS123

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    I certainly enjoy it. It feels sooooo good! I like taking it in the ass more than my guy likes giving it.
     
  8. as1st

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    I've got two gf's throughout my life. The first one was a weirdo who wanted her hymen to be intact before marriage. I managed to get her to have anal sex with me and she really enjoyed it with clit stimulation. She felt no pain at her very first time and needed little lubrication. She had a very strong sexual drive and could do it whenever I wanted to. I could simply turn her on by one grab at her boob and go straight for penetration.

    My current gf has little sexual desire. She needs a long foreplay just to enjoy vaginal sex. When I managed to convince her for anal sex, she found it very painful and not pleasurable. After the first time, she got very phobic to have my penis in her arse but is still willing to let me do anal fingering. She could really enjoy it if I did it right.

    The trick is, she must be really turned on. It's best to do it after she got orgasm from clit and G spot stimulation. My penis wouldn't last that long so fingering skill is really important here. Then I'll get her to ride my penis on top, and penetrate her arse slowly with my finger. She will ride rougher and rougher if everything goes right. Then lay her down with legs open wide and raise up, find the G spot in her arse. Maybe you'll be in doubt but I really do find a spot which the sensation is similar to G spot in the vagina. If I rush for it, I won't feel its presence at all. But if I do it slow, I'll be able to find and stimulate it, and she will get extremely high and moan uncontrollably.

    These are my experiences. One so hot that doesn't need much foreplay and lubrication to have anal sex. The other one so cold that it takes longer time just to get her enjoy fingering. I'm yet to please her to give my penis another try. I guess if your girl can go quick on vaginal penetration, then it will be easy for anal sex as well. Otherwise, you'll have to do it really slowly. I believe all women, more or less, can enjoy anal sex, as long as men do it right.
     
  9. Brightness_08

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    Before I tried anal I was the same way, I refused to do it I just thought it would be too painful and not fun. But then one night I got drunk and let my bf fuck me in the ass, and even though it hurt for the first minute or so, it turned into intense pleasure afterwards. So then I had anal sober and fuckin loved it. Maybe u should tell her that its good to try new things..I mean u never know until u try..
     
  10. niceneasy

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    My sentiments exactly Triple Ace!
    My wife hasn't let me anywhere near her pussy for almost 20 years and hasn't given me head since I can't remember when but when it comes to anal she is a one stop shop.
    Anal is so much more satisfying for both of us that we never really miss the other stuff.
    What is really great, besides the initial penetration that you mention, is when she is about to cum and her rectum tightens up around my shaft.
    God, that feels so good and after 20 years of marriage I know just how to play her to bring about her orgasms. I slow down my movement when I feel her tighten up - often she will ask me to stop moving for a few seconds.
    When she lets out a low moan and I can feel rectal walls gently massaging my dick I know I have done her well.
    Then she turns off her vibrator, looks at me and says "Do you mind if I have one or 2 more?"
     
  11. mrwolfsheim

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    We're new to anal play (relatively speaking) and were both shocked and amazed when my wife had an anal orgasm. It was after a long relaxing tickling/teasing session, I then went down on her and brought her to orgasm that way, she then flipped me over and sat on my penis in her arse hole.

    We then were in a facing each other sitting position, and she was able to bounce up and down, while we kissed. She had one orgasm which the twitching of her muscles set me off, she kept on going for a second one. We were both tripped out (this was 2-3 weeks ago) and just lay there twitching together for a few minutes. Women can definitely enjoy it.

    The brain is the most important part of any sex act, and being able to be open and honest with each other crucial. We've had our best sex when we're relaxed, and not trying too hard to achieve any outcome - just having fun together.
     
  12. Sucker69

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    I was married to Agnes for 19 years, After we divorced , she was seeing a guy , I guess he got her into taken her anal. I went by one morning and we ended up in bed fucking, She reached down and guided me into her ass, Wow never seen her get so hot, Dam just think we were married 19 years and never even thought about it.
    Sur miss her
     
  13. Sucker69

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    My first wife loved it but did not find out for 19 years.
    1994dully@gmail.com
     
  14. Touch of Eros

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    15 years and still no? Either she's got mental hang ups, or more likely, she DOESN'T LIKE IT.

    But to answer the question strictly, yes some do. Actually, most of the women I've been with. My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years loves it, frequently asks for it, and likes to use a toy on herself anally when we have sex.

    I would say it's a preference thing, and your wife prefers NOT to.
     
  15. Mike0606

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    Its definately a preference thing if she has tried it and just doesnt like it. If she refuses to try it, then yeah its a mental hang up of some sort, or fear.
     
  16. Beller

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    I enjot it....
     
  17. Just_a_woman

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    I enjoy anal a lot. The only thing is that the man should be patient: stimulate my clit and give me a little time to relax, to be ready. If the man rushes in when I'm not prepared, it'll perhaps hurt at the beginning and the experience won't be as good. If he does it right at the beginning, then we'll both have a great time. Once he's in, I'm in heaven. It feels fantastic, very intense, very pleasurable.
     
  18. matthewexeter

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    The girl don't want anal, I think don't ask the girl. And no I am not advising you analy rape your girlfriend. Just get her really relaxed (meals, a couple of glasses of wine, massage, loads of hugs, reassurance, I love you, and all that). Never let on what you are doing (kinda creepy). Every time you sleep with her pay more attention to her bum, maybe just her bum cheeks first, then squeeze around the bum hole or just the inside of the cheeks, or push the ass hole area up and down a bit like a button or something while your having sex or during foreplay Introduce all this gradually and subtly over a few weeks, eventually I reckon you'll be getting some anal
     
  19. nz male

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    I put a condom over 2 of my fingers & put plenty of lube on it & then started touching the outside of her anus with it & could feel her butt hole gradually opening as I used my fingers to gently penetrate it slightly. Unfortunately that was unacceptable to her & I got told not to go in that area. But I do fantasise a lot about doing it with someone who's adventurous enough to allow me to try anal play even if it's just using my fingers.
     
  20. analoverxxx

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    OH YEA FUCK YEA! Any women can enoy anal! But they afraid of pain and dont know how too relax!

    They saw and read so mcuh crap on net and propaganda about it... Anal sex is actually more enoyable then vaginal , because there is more nerve endings and you stimulate if you are female and prostate if you are male!


    Twice the fun!!!
     

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