I am 63 and have a very good sex life with my wife. She is 58. We masturbate together or alone at least 1-2 times weekly between sex with each other. We do it for our health. It's fun and brings us closer together. All I have to do is ask her for hand job and she's ready. Do I the same for her. We also use lube and toys too. We also do oral on each other as well. When she wants a good cum load we might skip a day or two. We let our mood guide our sex life.
Absolutely love to masturbate as does my wife. Watching her work her clit with her magic wand helps me cum harder though most times I like to edge and draw things out to a climax long after my lady is orgasmed out. I am 62 and my wife is 65. I openly masturbate at home when ever the mood hits which is usually at least two to three times daily and if I'm edging it could be eight or ten sessions over several hours before I'll finally allow myself to cum. It hasn't always been like this. It wasn't untill the kids were grown and gone that we opened up to each other fully about our masturbation desires and the use of sex toys we openly enjoy now.I will say my wife's sexual desires have diminished with the years where mine Seems to have increased which is a bit of an issue. But that's another story.
Your right. It isnt. But in many marriages the wife becomes an unwilling participant or no longer is willing to spice things up anymore and the bedroom becomes boredroom. Masturbation can leave oneself to fantasize mentally or even play out some of their fetishes. Seen a few friends marriages end over not connecting with each other anymore.
My wife and I still connect sexually, and have sex about 3-5 times a week. But we both still masturbate in between times, either together or alone. Me more than her lol.
Well, my wife has little to no libido, I have to masturbate to get some relief. In 42 years of marriage I have never cheated on my wife, however, it's getting to the point now that I need to find a FWB. Oh, to feel a warm wet vagina again. Twice a year, if I'm lucky, is not nearly enough. My wife has always had a low libido. After menopause it's gotten far worse.
I'm 64 and if I could get the alone time I'd do it 5 or 6 times a week. But I only get time for 3 or 4. Still horny, love to watch porn and jerk off. My wife doesn't want sex any more and doesn't mind me relieving myself.
At least once a day. With my gal if we don't have sex then maybe twice or more. Sometimes if she has cum a bunch of times and I can still go, then I'll shoot a final load on her. I'm 55 she is 45
64 alone here serial masterbator here used to jerk every day but recently had my prostate removed hence no hard on and no cum so in deep depression , are there any likeminded members out there, envious of all you guys now lol
Depends...I've had times that I've done it just as often, once I did it back to back one night. Two times, half hour apart. But seldom does that happen as you get older. I've found the willingness/ ability to do as much masturbating decreases some. However if a partner is handy, my libido can rival my younger days. Just might need a day to recoup, after two wild days in a row. If I had a good life partner, it would be fun to see what was really possible now.
Man sorry to hear that... I met a salesperson who had that problem recently. I've wondered, does anyone do Prostate Transplants? Seems the medical profession should get after this. Maybe there's a way, hopefully!!
Why would you think older men don't masturbate.. There nothing ugly, pervert or creepy about it. It is so healthy.. My wife does too. We are a senior couple
Yes Twice a day perhaps one or twice/week Three tines/day perhaps once a fortnight or more Longest abstinence - 4 days every few months