Do Older Guys Still Wank As Much?

When we are retired, we have more free time. The kids grew up and left the home, we don't interest to look for better job, so we did whatever we were curious to reach, and we are not interested any more. The only remains to tinck about, is to enjoy the rest of our lives, to have more sex ,to go to trips, to go to restaurants and to do whatever we did not do in the past.
Masturbation is the main sex which we reach it very easy, so we do it as much as we can, even more than we we were teens.

 

I wank a lot at least 4 to 8 times a day and I’m in my 50’s

 

I’m 59 and regularly masturbate, good for the soul

 

Yes it is and keep masturbating ..

 

Of course

 

Yes, I’m starting now, again. Wish I had a friend to join in.

 

I'm mid-50s and just retired. I have a feeling that 5-7 times a week is going to be more like 2-3 times a day now that I'll be at home and my wife is still working for a few more months. And we're having more sex than we have for a while, so I hope to have a big smile on my face in the c̶o̶m̶i̶n̶g̶ cumming days.

 

Congratulation to be retired, so you have free time for sex activities, keep going, if you like PM to chat more.

 

When I was young I masturbated more than I fucked.

Now it's just the opposite. My gf and bf keep me satisfied, and I have stronger orgasms with them when I don't jack off too much between encounters.

 

Thanks. First day of "she goes to work, I'm at home" was yesterday, and masturbated 3 times. Am right now. Good start!

 

I don't watch porn anymore,but I fantasize while I masturbate. It is much better than watching to use just your eyes. Fantasizing is much helpful and is a practice to improve your brain and memory. Also you get hard with less using your hand which is tacks more time to cum , but your ejaculation is more tense and pleasurable. I have a grate experience , if you like PM me to discuss more.

 

So much to say now, on this.
Index to points here:
1. little background
2. medical advice provided to me
3. medications for ED and what differences I've experienced.

1. Without sex for years, I started to notice a drop off in erections, such as no morning hardon and fewer happening in response to nude pictures etc.
I also noticed they weren't as rigid/hard.

2. I spoke to my GP.
a. I have NO heart issues and am on no meds at all.
b. I know a guy whose had ED for 10 years because having heart issues (AF) high blood pressure and diabetes.
He's not allowed to take sildenafil or cialis at all.
c. So if you are on any meds, for heart or blood pressure etc, you MUST check with your physician before taking ED meds or it may not just be your cock becoming stiff but, your whole body.
d. Because I hadn't had sex for a long time, the GP suggested my body may just need a kick.
She said that if he doesn't go hard when I am with someone, it may make me feel concerned and self-conscious and make sex impossible.
So I was to try it to demonstrate to myself that all still works and so reduce any potential anxiety.

3. Meds and Experiences

Sildenafil:
My GP prescribed Sildenafil, the active ingredient in Viagra.
Physical stimulation was required and my cock became very hard.
It wouldn't bend at all, which I knew would cause issues for a former GF whose method of fucking me, cowgirl, and sliding her pelvis back and forth, required my cock to bend.
I wasn't sure she would enjoy it as much, if we ever did it again.
Side effects were headaches, flushing/red face and hot face and, also, heartburn.
Eye sight sometimes developed a tint, either blueish or yellowish.

Cialis:
I asked the GP next time, for Cialis.
After an hour, and some stimulation, nothing extra seemed to happen than without ED meds.
Next day I awoke with a hardon which persisted until after I had drunk my first coffee.
Impressed, I was, because it had never lasted until after coffee even in my 20s.
And then I remembered that, back then, I came before leaving bed lol

Cialis is supposed to last 3 days but I got no side effects.
Day 1, nothing notciable happened.
Day 2 - hardons throughout the day (about 5 or 6) and of natural hardness. It would still bend as much as my GF back then had needed.
Day 3, like day 2.
Day 4 (after it should have worn off), I awoke with a hardon, during the night.
I awoke with a hardon in the morning.
I enjoyed more throughout the day.

I would get erections throughout the day and they're noticeable.
My platonic friend commented on it and a girl in the supermarket noticed, stared a little and looked up and smiled.

I left it until its effects had finally gone. It was about 8 days, before softish hards were again happening.
I met up with that platonic friend and we chatted about it.
She is and was amazing.
I knew she was a great friend but after a chat I appreciated her more.
She remarked that she knew my body worked because she had seen the erection I had when trialling Cialis.
And she said that we know it works when I wank.
So really, she added, what you need to find out is whether he works as hoped when in a sexual situation.
I laughed and agreed.
She said OK, lets get naked and she stripped. I stripped too. We kissed, cuddled and we had sex.
Actually slow to kick off at the beginning, all did work very well.
My erection was as hard as when I was in my 30s. It did bend enough for cowgirl even though she said she'd happily go up and down instead if he wouldn't bend.

Conclusion:
1. Sometimes we may feel we've got ED but it may just be that there's nothing arousing us sufficiently.
Videos and porn etc can wear off in their ability to get us going.
2. Cialis gave me fewer (zero) side-effects or, certainly, none that I could perceive which means it would be my Med of choice if I need it.
3. Discussing with a friend (a friend as supportive as mine, clearly has shown herself to be), demonstrated that everything in me actually works as it should.

Summary:
A. So, guys, don't give up.
B. Don't assume that because your erections may be lesser than before that your body is broken or your sexual life is crashing.
It may be that you're not getting the right stimulation and, I suppose, we can all overlook the intricacy of our body and that an erection only happens after a lot of biological things have happened.
I think it only takes one or more of those not to occur for our erection not to appear.
C. those who are married may be sharing life with an amazing woman whom they will stay with forever.
However, expecting one person to fulfil every one of our needs can be a bit much.
She may not want sex but all else may be brilliant. which leads me to 'D'.
D. Whether married or not, if you have a close friend, talk to her about it.

I was amazed at how my body responded after my friend helped me.
My body is behaving better and is more active, than when on Cialis.
It is back to what it was in my 30s, in terms of erections and their frequency and strength.
My fitness is lesser so some gym activity or riding a bike will be happening soon, to address that.

hth someone.

 

This is quite a story. But in the end the summary and resolution is quite correct. A lot of men don't really need medication in order to form an erection. All they need is some good visual stimulation and a nice pussy to slip into. Plus diet and exercise goes a long way in maintaining a body that can produce good erections and satisfying sexual ability.

 

Nope. For the following reasons:
1. I have a wife and we have sex enough that I don’t feel the need to masturbate like when I was younger and single.
2. When you get older you don’t need to do that as much as when you’re younger and your hormones are raging.
3. I have kids and a demanding job, I simply don’t have as much free time anymore and my energy level isn’t what it used to be.

With that said, I still enjoy sex when it happens and would love to resume a more active sex life once the kids become more self sufficient. And there are still plenty of days that I wake up with a good case of morning wood and need to take matters into my own hands.

 

As a general rule the older you get the more you'll be masturbating. That's because the older she gets the less she will want to fuck. That's the dead bedroom scenario which is a common happening with married couples.

 

I agree with the Shark,

Having a wife and responsibilities does tend to get into the way of wanking.

It was much easier to wank when I was younger. Less stress, responsibilities and more free time.

I’m sure if I lived alone and didn’t have to worry about keeping a roof over my head I would probably wank a lot more. I take that back I know I would wank a lot more. House would be one giant goon cave.

 

I'm 61, I love Masturbating & Edging out the Best Feeling on mine often as possible too, I enjoy Masturbation often slow along time

 

Still jack off 1 to 3 times every day. sometimes after some porn stimulation. And ride dildos 3 to 4 times a week just because I like it in the ass. And I will normally cum then too even if not hard

 

Since my wife is menopausal sex isn’t very often. I jerk off almost as much as I did when I was 14.

 

I do more now then when I was younger . And it feels so damn good to that I can’t stop wanking !