Do most men hate receiving handjobs?

I got a nice, long handjob a few days ago. The woman used to work in a massage parlor. COVID closed them down. She put the massage table in her spare room and saw a few people. I ran across her serving coffee at a donut shop. Took us both a few minutes to figure out how we knew each other. Long story short, I got her number and visited her place. No real massage but almost an hour of her stroking me as we caught up by talking and eventually her allowing me to play with her body. Neither of us was in a hurry to finish so it was fun and it felt good and the release was more than just an orgasm...it was like watching stress roll off. As much as I LOVE blowjobs, I don't think either one of use would have lasted an hour (or almost). And there would have been no talking, or at least not as much. I love watching her get it hard, then just play a little, then get it hard again. Switching positions and hands. Getting her robe off. Finally asking her to finish me and watching her work hard to see me release. All good stuff. Don't get me wrong, if she decided to open her mouth and suck me, I would not have stopped her but a slow, relaxed handjob given generously by a friend is a special gift.

 

Me too and for a set of reasons.
First of all I have a real passion for female hands, in their variety I usually find them more beautiful and I like it when in foreplay we play with them, trying to put them palm to palm and intertwine fingers. I like to watch her hand when she grabs one of my finger. It is something allusive and mischievous that is a prelude to something else. The hands have a high sensitivity so the desire to touch is normal in order to know the shapes and consistency of things.
As for me it is natural to feel the need to touch and caress my partner and, when there is a lot of excitement, to feel with my finger how she is "inside", if she is wet, how she is cozy or tight, how she reacts, so I believe it's the same for her. My current partner tells me that she finds it extremely exciting and rewarding to touch it, play with it and feel it become turgid, stretch and grow thick in her hands. When it is the woman who does it, and does it spontaneously, it gives me the idea that she wants me and shows it to me directly, without turning around it. In addition to the sensations of touch, there are also visual ones. If watching her hold a finger of my hand is very exciting, watching her while she is dealing with my penis it's something almost irresistible. I was said I'm rather girthy and it's fun to watch a woman try to encircle it with the fingers of her hand and not being able to join the fingertips. I know it's a game but I like it and in that moment it has its erotic value and helps to increase the arousal.

Then there is an aspect that makes the experience with my current partner even more special, and it is the fact that, due to her particular condition, her hands are very small, a little pudgy and with short tapered fingers. This, both from a visual and tactile point of view, greatly amplifies the sensations, both for me and for her. She knows this and uses it in her favor especially after we have already done one or more rounds and she wants to turn me on again. After she has awakened the snake with the arts of her massage, the snake wants his reward. It is part of the foreplay, we usually prefer to conclude with penetration and sexual intercourse to take advantage of a full and powerful erection and better share feelings. Touching it and playing with it she anticipates the moment, and I make her suffer a while in waiting before penetrating her.
Sometimes we have come to the end with hj, probably due to too much excitement, but was a total mess. We had to clean everywhere. But it wasn't useless. Seeing all that energy being wasted around when it happens outside gives an idea of what it is like when it happens deep "inside".

 

I don't like to mainly because if I wanted it I can do it myself. But if someone really liked giving them I wouldn't refuse them either. Just doesn't do much for me.

 

Very well put.

 

I always love it when my wife gives me a hand job, more than I do it myself. It is even better if she does it spontaneously and unexpectedly.

 

I love a good handjob. Work the cock and let the hands roam.

 

Hate is a strong word for such a fun sexual act to give! The only thing I know is even if I started a handjob he always loves it to end in in a blowjob. Works for me I love to do both for him!

 

Most handjobs I've received have ended as a blowjob. Maybe not so much in the massage joints but between friends it's hand to mouth!

 

Why not use your hands at the same time?
My favourite when done right

 

You should get more of it from time to time.

 

tbh i've never met a woman who hasn't popped it in her mouth anyway after giving it a tug, best of both worlds.

 

Hand jobs, blow jobs, rim jobs. Everyone wants a job. Neither one bothers me to be receiving, because I will return the favor.

 

Ironically when she's focused on it she's not very good at it. She thinks hard and fast is the only way to make me cum but the best ones are just a gentle tug for 10, 20, 30 minutes - it builds into something out of this world. It's best when I'm stroking her at the same time so her mind is distracted. It makes her strokes erratic and I don't know when the next one will be or how long. She stops entirely for a minute because she feels so good then picks up where she left off. Finally we both know we're close, go for broke and cum together hard - it's one of my favourite things in the world and often beats intercourse,

 

It all comes down to her technique. If she good and treats it right and wants to do it, no problem - unless I really feel the need to be inside her at the moment.

 

I totally agree with one of the above comments. Blowjobs can be great, handjobs can be equally wonderful and satisfying. Having both done at the same time one of the best experiences

 

One very exciting experience what is your recent encounter. Very nicely done and unhurried handjob, I finally got the courage to ask if I could film it and to my surprise she agreed.
I took a few short clips from different angles and she did what she usually does, and I had that pretty strong finish again.
I have watched it about three times so far and some particular shots get me over the edge

 

Absolutely no issues whatsoever with a hand job. A good hand job is a very satisfying thing.

 

I had a fantastic handjob last night from my wife. Started off with amazing ball play, teasing and gently running her fingernails across my sack, shivers down the spine stuff. Wasn’t long before I was rock solid, I always get extra hard when I have my ball played with like that!! She then started to jerk me off bringing me close to shooting my load several times then denying me. A short while later she finally allowed my throbbing cock to cum whilst lightly tapping my balls at the same time. Handjobs are great!

 

Never a fan. Maybe I haven't had the right partner for them. I have a hand that knows what I want. What I need is a mouth/pussy/ass.........so much better.

 

You got it. Hand jobs seem to consist of me saying "oh wait, here hold it like that", "no, not like that, like this, I'll show you how it works", "no, don't rub it raw that hurts", "don't choke it", "not so fast", "not so slow"....and finally, "just put it in your mouth..that's it...much better"....can't go wrong with that....