Do most men hate receiving handjobs?

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  1. thesantos29

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    Women often don't like GIVING handjobs, so, they put in a half-hearted effort. At that point, yes, I would rather do it myself.
     
  2. BigTease

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    I would never turn down a hand job.
     
  3. Curiouscouple2469

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    I have had great handjobs and really bad handjobs, it can depend on if the person is receptive to coaching or gets annoyed that you suggest they change angle/grip/pressure/speed, etc
    I suspect most guys enjoy different techniques so don't feel like you aren't appreciated if we suggest a little change up.
     
  4. Piobaire

    Piobaire Village Idiot

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    I certainly don't "hate" having my cock stroked by anyone; actually, I'm quite appreciative, regardless of the level of skill displayed. Sometimes it's the thought that counts.
    However, it's been my experience that other males are much better at it, simply because of their long years of practice. I would assume the corollary is true for women, too, for the same reason.

    As for penetration, you should take that up with your sex partner. You are perfectly entitled to express and request what feels good and to refrain from what doesn't, and to have those boundaries respected.

    PRO TIP: "Jerking off" is a euphemism for masturbation, not a literal description of the actual process. No need to try to rip it out by the roots.
     
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  5. Modasflower

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    I can’t understand why anybody would hate a handjob. Sure it’s not as good as sex or a blowie, but what’s there to hate? You’re having your cock played with and stroked until you cum. What’s not to like?
     
  6. Tonynewyork6969

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    I have posted before about how i enjoy my wife giving me a handjob. She is a natural blonde, 60, 36d, 5’2 and 110 pounds of sex. We met in college where she was the blowjob queen. This morning i feel like a handjob and she is washing up and will join me a few minutes to stroke my already hard member. Her hands are petite and she knows how to vary the intensity as she strokes me and also gently massages my balls. When I cum she continues to stroke until all my cum has shot out and some of it drips over her hands. She then either licks and swallows some of it or cleans it up. Either way it is a great experience.
     
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  7. Andy Schumer

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    I can say I had several amazing handjobs that were better than blowjobs. Given that the giver was receptive to instruction how to do it, with extended edging that gave me several orgasms that kept me moaning, twitching and leaking precum.
    Those who could do it with their mouth, I can count them on a little more than one hand
     
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  8. Modasflower

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    You can’t beat a good handjob sometimes. My wife always gives me one when I’m horny if she doesn’t feel like sex.
     
  9. Lucky 777

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    I’ve had some of the most mind blowing orgasms of my life from handjobs. An old friend used oil, sitting between my legs and taking her time. Knowing I was being watched, no studied, made the whole experience highly erotic.
     
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  10. SantaCruzRob

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    The best was with a woman who lived in the same apartment building. She was not involved with anyone, between work and school she wasn't looking for a relationship, but everyone gets horny.
    I would be completely naked, she got topless and took her time playing. The first few times it was just a long hand job, involving massage oil. It took awhile but eventually she let me finger her:p
     
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  11. Ozguynextdoor

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    Love a good Sunday morning handjob from my partner. It’s almost a ritual now.
    Lying back in bed while she fondles my balls while I slowly get hard then get the lube and works her magic. I tell her when I’m about to cum and she slows right down to watch me shoot. Full of cheeky sexy talk about how I like it and how hard I am
     
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  12. bbw-lover71

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    I love a good handjob my other half is really good at them, she will often slide her hand inside my jeans and underwear while we are out and wank me till I cum, she loves doing this at restaurants and the cinema often before the lights go out, at home she just pops my cock out and goes for it while we are watching TV.
     
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  13. SergeantStroker69

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    I never say no to anything anyone wants to do with my penis.
     
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  14. SantaCruzRob

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    Hate is such a strong word, with plenty of practice anyone can become very good at it.:p
     
  15. Andy Schumer

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    Went for a massage last week. New “girl” was also offering bj, not sure with or without condoms because of her still learning the language. No, not forced but her choice to do this work.
    Anyway, I chose to have a handjob and it was great! Very short massage and spent a great amount of time keeping me hard and feeling good before making me cum.
    Kept me very happy during.
     
  16. bbw-lover71

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    Sounds like you may be a repeat customer
     
  17. Andy Schumer

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    Nope, too far from home otherwise I would repeat
     
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  18. HarryD420

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    I love for my partner to give me a hand job along with a blowjob. She absolutely loves sucking my cock and does a great job but usually finishes me with her hands. She lubes my cock well then works it slowly with both hands and then begins stroking firmly with one hand playing with my balls or my anus with her other hand which gives me powerful orgasms.
     
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  19. Andy Schumer

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    Love them so much I could get them every day
    I have a fantasy to have a hours long edging handjob and give it a break, start again for another of the same. Then let it cum at the end of the day
     
  20. Allenr35

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    Sometimes Anything is better than nothing!
     

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