Do men go blind once they get married?

I was recently hanging with some buddied and one relayed this story to me. One guy and his wife went to a formal gala a few weeks ago and the guy took a bunch of pics on his cell phone. Just random shots of him and his wife and a number of shots of the crowd. The next day they were at his parent's house and he was showing his family pics of the gala. Apparently this guy had taken a few shots of the crowd and in the mix of the pics was a very attractive and shapely woman. He was showing the pic to his brothers and one of his nephews and brother-in-law. His wife saw them all huddled around her husband and his phone and she heard one of them mention how fine the girl was. She immediately got mad and left. When he got home he said she walked up to him and asked him if he had taken a pic of the girl. He immediately said no, which he didn't. He showed me the pic and it was a wide open shot of the gala and she just happened to be in the shot. He hat to pinch and zoom in on this woman and yeah, she was very attractive, but he didn't focus his phone on her and just take a pic of her. Of course he immediately denied what she thought, which actually was the truth. He didn't just take a pic of this girl but she just so happened to be in the shot.

Ladies, when you start dating a guy or even marry one do you think he doesn't find anyone else attractive now that he's with you? Did he now all of a sudden go blind simply because he's now with you? And was he really doing anything wrong? Come on now, these are guys and this was a very attractive woman. Boys will be boys I think. It wasn't like he hit on the girl, asked her for her number, or followed her around all night.

Did he do anything wrong? Don't women still find men hot or attractive even though they have a boyfriend or a husband?

 

Yesterday, my wife and I were helping out at a "trunk or treat" even. We were sitting together at the cake walk booth when a very attractive young mother came by with her kids. She had a really nice smile, which always gets my attention. I said to Lynn, "That is a very pretty lady!" She agreed. Marriage doesn't end the appreciation of beauty, and my wife knows that.

 

I've known a few women like this. One was a friends wife. She liked getting the attention from other guys though but he was to be blind to those around him. It ended in divorce eventually. Another is my wife's sister. She thinks it's disgusting if a married man looks at another woman and hates when a guy looks at her. She gets passed. She is now 64 years old. I think it's time for her to grow up

 

Well when I got married it didnt include blinkers .

Trust is a key element of a relationship and has to be earned by both partners .

If your partner doesnt trust you then you need to ask questions as it will erode the relationship slowly but surely .

 

I know a few people like this too. We are all programmed to see beauty even beauty that might tap on our sexual impulses.
Looking is common but retaining what you see is fleeting.
Men don't hold these images in their heads for any length of time and according to my wife, women don't either.

 

Guys are more into visual things than women . Thats because we are wired differently and nothing to do with potentially straying .

 

My wife will elbow me when we're out....." did you see that one "? she'll ask me . What the hell's wrong with people ?