Do men experience cheating differently?

I would be devastated by my wife loving another man or woman. she is bi. I would also be destroyed by the notion of her adoring another man more so than I. As far as gettin laid is concerned, well thats something entirely different. Not true for everybody but true on my account. Now if i were disrespected in the act of her gettin some strange we would have problems. I think the key is knowing eachother well enough to know what is right and what is wrong.

Basically be the man she could never walk away from and you have no worries.

 

Nice statement. Stark and to the point

 

Has worked for me for ten years and has opened up our relationship a great deal.

Thanks

 

Last time a girl cheated on me, I locked myself in my room for a week and did nothing but smoke weed. Everytime I'd think about her, Id get so pissed off and wanted to fucking kill someone.

Now I have an amazing girl, who would never do that kind of thing.

 

Excellent!! Be the guy she deserves and it should remain great.

 

We've already agreed that neither of us deserves each other. We're just happy that we found each other.

I'm loving life.

 

how long you been together now?

 

Actually not that long. About A week and a half now. The connection is so strong, it seems WAY longer. We love the same music, Act the same way, A lot of times we find ourselves thinking the same thing. LOL

Love this girl.

 

well good luck to ya mate. enjoy her!!

 

I remember someone saying that sexual vs. "emotional" cheating is considered worse by one gender vs. another. Unfortunately, I can't remember which, and not being the jealous type, I can't just make an educated guess. I'm pretty sure I could deal with a boyfriend fucking someone else, but the emotional side... I don't know, really.

 

emotional friends are scarier to me than fuckbuddies.

 

It entirely depends on how emotionally attached we are.


If she’s just some girl who cheated on me after a few dates fine, no big deal, but if she’s the love of my life, my wife or wife-to-be, my soul mate, the very source of my strength through which all good things emerge, my future, my destiny, ......................... I’d kill them both


Hotwater

 

but of course.

 

lol. women are raised with a long history of tales of the horn dog man. he just can't help it, so long as he comes home, blah blah blah. i know i was raised that way, as were my brothers. what was good for the goose was NOT GOOD for the gander, either. personally i always thought that was extremely hypocritical and silly, really. people of both sexes cheat and treat each other like garbage. but being in love with someone is entirely different. if you love them, you don't want them to feel badly, you dont' want to hurt them.

 

If you mean friends who blatantly love each other but don't fuck, yeah, me too.

 

it would make a person feel like a third wheel in their relationship.

 

I've only ever heard women refer to "emotional cheating" though. Most of the ones that believe in it think it's as bad as if not worse than just fucking someone else if you're in love with someone else. Course, I'd argue that most chicks would be pretty fucking livid no matter which of those their guy did, but I'd also that women just be looking for any excuse to get crazy.

But yeah, I'm thinking that guys would be more hurt by a girl sleeping around than by her being in love with someone else. I base this on the number of girls who've had guyfriends who were really into them and remained totally oblivious to that fact; chicks don't seem to get the whole "friendzoning" thing and are largely unaware that at any given time half of their male friends are guys who wanted to fuck them. Or maybe they are aware of it and they're just evil, I don't know. If it's the former I can imagine a girl being more shocked to find that her guy still had feelings for an old girlfriend or whatever, and hadn't ceased to ever think of anyone else in that way the second he first laid eyes on her.

 

My new girlfriend cheated on me the other day, with my friend. I was mad at first, but then I just told her and my friend not to talk to me anymore.

I'm done dating, I've given up. I thought she was the one, and she fucked my friend.

Fuck relationships dude, I cant find an honest girl, so hell with it.

 

Yep,Just move on brother. Nevermind dating. When it's right it's right. As long as your huntin up love it will always evade you. Spend your time working on you and developing items in your personal life. Get laid when need be but beware of love. It dont come as easy as many will tell you.