Fingers! No contest. They do EXACTLY what I want, don't make a buzzing sound and you don't have to hide them from children!
Fingers (mine or someone else's!) are good, but for a truly reliable orgasm a good rechargeable vibrator works wonders!
Prit near anything is good. ETA, oh this was in masturbation. I thought it was asking about my man's fingers or toys.
I prefer toys. I have a rabbit vibrator that I absolutely love, and my roommate has a Sybian that she lets me use sometimes and it makes me wish I could afford one.
The Sybian is absolutely amazing imo. I've had some of my best orgasms from it. I'm totally going to buy one when I'm not totally poor. It can be a little loud tho. you don't need most of the attachments. my roommate only has a couple. i know that she and her husband love it. if you ever get a chance to try it out, you really should. tho if you're anything like me it'll make you want to buy one.
Do you get any long term nerve damage from the constant vibration stimulation? I've heard other women say that it started out great but then desensitized them and they've never been the same since down there.
I am just the opposite. Fingers when I'm alone (or when I'm doing the driving) and toys (especially the Hitachi) when someone else is behind the wheel.
The soft caress of human touch or the robotic (/otherwise) function of designer toys both have their time, place and purpose - it does no harm to interchange such - based on mood and/or desire - methinks
i have not. i think i have more orgasms now than before i used it. so i don't think it's desensitized me at all. i can't say it won't for sure, but it didn't for me at least so far, or for my roommate.
Fingers are good for getting me wet and turned on but when it comes to making me orgasm toys do the trick