Do I look older than 30?

Grandeur you constantly come in here asking for advice and yet never take any of it. You need to get some professional help. Life is not going to change for you until you decide to do something to effect that change. Getting some help would be a good first step.

 

I didn't ask what I should do. I just asked if I looked older than 30, which I don't think because it is only people on internet that tell me I look older. Not in real life.

I saw a lot of men with long beard at age of 30 and they did not look younger than me.

It suprises me to see that people on internet think I am older. That is why I asked. People on Girlsaskguys website told the same. But this is just happening on internet. And I find it very strange.


But leave beard, shave beard, cut your hair, lose weight, gain weight things... These are happening in real life too. What is not happening is looking older than age only. Except maybe when I was fattest me, because my bmi had reached 30.. Obesity makes people look older. Way a lot more than beard does.

 

I posted different version of me on the thread. I also have a photo with zero beard. But I am also a lot thinner in the photo. Guess what? When I was clean shaved, people told me to leave beard this time. And when I lost weight, people told me to gain weight.

So people will say otherwise whatever you do. And there is even a good turkish story about it but it would make me tired to translate it.

I had just asked about age because I am suprised to see every time I ask this on internet, people on internet think I look older. But as I said, only on internet. Very strange. Lol.

In real life, I didn't encounter any people who said I looked older than my age. With beard or without beard.

 

I know the feeling.

But regarding those girls. Forget the appearances and just chat to them like you do to us on here and you will soon make some friends.
We don't all run away when you post on here. Neither will the girls when they see the real you.

 

There is no girl who chats with me and with beard or without beard, thin or overweight, longer hair, shorter air, this didn't change anything as I said.

Everybody I talk in real life are males. There is no female in it.

 

First off--forget who and what "THEY " say. There are 7 billions " THEYS" in the world. Look at yourself, figure out how you want to be and then get after being it. You look fine, but that's not so important.

 

Joe Dassin is 37 years old here.

 

Sean Connery is 37 years old here (1967)

 

Grandy I asked you to post a photo of YOU smiling.
Now DID THAT fall on deaf ears?

 

This woman was 25 years old when she sang this song.

I really doubt I would look old next to her. Here is a 25 year old woman.

 

This woman was only 20 years old.

 

Thomas Müller is 31 years old. And when this photo was taken, he had not turned 31 yet.

 

Marlon Brando is 30 years old in the photo, the same age as me.

 

The man you see on the right is 31 years old, 1 year older than me (he was born in 1989)

He is a famous person in Turkey (Cihangir Ceyhan).



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Yes, and notice both he and Marlon Brando are clean shaven, so I still say, lose the beard and moustache and you'll look many years younger, providing you stay clean shaven.

 

How young do they look without beard? I also put the photo of Thomas Müller above, who is a german football player.

Beard is the symbol of being a man, not being old. Get it.

If I was 16, and had that beard, then this would be absurd because a 16 old year is not a man.

If one looks older, he would look so with or without beard.

 

The possession of a beard is NOT the symbol of a man !!! If that were true, then both Marlon Brando & your idol Cihangir Ceyhan would not be, in your eyes men, which clearly isn't so !!!

 

Not shaving does not make a man older unless beard grows white because beard is the nature of being an adult man. However, white beard does. Because white color is the symbol of being old.

 

You make it sound like a 30 year old man is a 16 year old teenager who should not have beard.

By being a man, What I mean is being an adult male. Don't look for a second meaning in it. I used it in its first meaning,which is being an adult male.

 

Adult males do not think that they need to dress and grow beards to impress girls.
I can remember the day that I arrived to meet a girl wearing my bedroom slippers.