Do guys like it when...

Do guys like it when they can tell a girl's just giving in? Have any girls felt pressured to suck?

 

douchebag guys love it. plenty of girls have done sexual stuff because of guys' pressure.

 

I was curious about why guys like it, that's all.

 

For me, personally, I dont enjoy it when I can tell a girl is just giving in. It`s much more fun when the female is having as much fun as I am.

 

Man i feel so stupid! lol

 

I guess some guys would! Myself no. I don't get off on being with a woman that is weak and lets themself be pushed around or does things just for approval.

 

I guess I've always been that way...

 

Don't feel too bad; you certainly aren't the first girl (or guy) that's done it.

Just remember, if the guy is pressuring you, he certainly isn't worth getting an STD over, and you don't know who else he's been pressuring to do what else.

 

It was when I was very young and it still embarrasses me a little.

 

What was it that you were pressured to do ChloeB?

 

Give oral sex to an adult, male friend if my family while he was babysitting me.

 

That's not a normal relationship situation. That is rape.

 

I know that now and it only happened a few times long ago. But it colors perceptions, you know?

 

I would say "Yes, guys like it when a girl just gives in to giving head."

Consider, if a girl gives into pressure, then some guy has applied the pressure.

The guy who applies that much pressure will not feel guilty when she gives into it.

Therefor whenever a girl gives into pressure, the guy getting head is the kind who doesn't notice or doesn't care that she is just giving in and doesn't want to do it. In either case, he enjoys the bj.

Therefore, yes guys enjoy when a girl gives into pressure.

It is also true that most guys have the sensitivity or caring that prevents them from applying that kind of pressure, so most guys don't experience pressure-driven bj's.

 

I'd feel weird about it and I'd lose respect for the girl.

It sounds like you were sexually assaulted by your babysitter too, that's really not cool. Consider doing something about that

 

If this is true you should inform the police. Or this guy will be doing it to the next little girl he's left alone with.

 

I lost my virginity when I was 12 and my babysitter was 16. I don't look at it as rape although she clearly did use her position and take advantage. I just see it as life's learning curve. Men and women see things differently obviously

 

you may be able to press charges against this guy.


I'm sorry to hear that this happened

 

I'm just curious, ChloeB... You're not a redhead from Australia, are you? o_o