Do guys like it when...

Discussion in 'Oral and Anal Sex' started by ChloeB, May 2, 2013.

  1. ChloeB

    ChloeB Guest

    Do guys like it when they can tell a girl's just giving in? Have any girls felt pressured to suck?
     
  2. machinist

    machinist Banned Lifetime Supporter

    douchebag guys love it. plenty of girls have done sexual stuff because of guys' pressure.
     
  3. ChloeB

    ChloeB Guest

    I was curious about why guys like it, that's all.
     
  4. Chalegringo

    Chalegringo Guest

    For me, personally, I dont enjoy it when I can tell a girl is just giving in. It`s much more fun when the female is having as much fun as I am.
     
  5. ChloeB

    ChloeB Guest

    Man i feel so stupid! lol
     
  6. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

    I guess some guys would! Myself no. I don't get off on being with a woman that is weak and lets themself be pushed around or does things just for approval.
     
  7. ChloeB

    ChloeB Guest

    I guess I've always been that way...
     
  8. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

    Don't feel too bad; you certainly aren't the first girl (or guy) that's done it.

    Just remember, if the guy is pressuring you, he certainly isn't worth getting an STD over, and you don't know who else he's been pressuring to do what else.
     
  9. ChloeB

    ChloeB Guest

    It was when I was very young and it still embarrasses me a little.
     
  10. Jondalar

    Jondalar Banned

    What was it that you were pressured to do ChloeB?
     
  11. ChloeB

    ChloeB Guest

    Give oral sex to an adult, male friend if my family while he was babysitting me.
     
  12. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

    That's not a normal relationship situation. That is rape.
     
  13. ChloeB

    ChloeB Guest

    I know that now and it only happened a few times long ago. But it colors perceptions, you know?
     
  14. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

    I would say "Yes, guys like it when a girl just gives in to giving head."

    Consider, if a girl gives into pressure, then some guy has applied the pressure.

    The guy who applies that much pressure will not feel guilty when she gives into it.

    Therefor whenever a girl gives into pressure, the guy getting head is the kind who doesn't notice or doesn't care that she is just giving in and doesn't want to do it. In either case, he enjoys the bj.

    Therefore, yes guys enjoy when a girl gives into pressure.

    It is also true that most guys have the sensitivity or caring that prevents them from applying that kind of pressure, so most guys don't experience pressure-driven bj's.
     
  15. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

    I'd feel weird about it and I'd lose respect for the girl.

    It sounds like you were sexually assaulted by your babysitter too, that's really not cool. Consider doing something about that :(
     
  16. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Staff Member Super Moderator

    I'm going to gamble that ChloeB is legit.

    I've been there. It takes years of patient partners to help you get beyond molestation.
    Get a therapist. You need it.
    Get a guy who has enough brains to realize that pushing an abuse survivor is a losing proposition.

    You personally need to occasionally give it a shot, with your partner understanding if it doesn't happen all the way. Test the waters, disconnect the creep from potential pleasure and joy.
     
  17. leeds85

    leeds85 Member


    If this is true you should inform the police. Or this guy will be doing it to the next little girl he's left alone with.
     
  18. Pimp daddy

    Pimp daddy Member

    I lost my virginity when I was 12 and my babysitter was 16. I don't look at it as rape although she clearly did use her position and take advantage. I just see it as life's learning curve. Men and women see things differently obviously
     
  19. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

    you may be able to press charges against this guy.


    I'm sorry to hear that this happened
     
  20. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

    I'm just curious, ChloeB... You're not a redhead from Australia, are you? o_o
     

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