Do Guys Like Girls That Have Been Around?

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  1. Dr. Banner84

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    To piggy back off my last post, I’d like to share a couple of experiences that show what dealing with a so-called “slut” in a serious relationship could lead to. One can be viewed positively and the other negatively but of course it’s all context.

    To begin, I know a guy who’s happily married to a slut (he calls himself one too) but for years he only knew about certain situations because she didn’t let him know about all her sexual escapades. They started having conversations about swinging, wife-swapping, group sex etc but eventually the wife slipped up and told him that she had been in a handful of groupsex situations which she never mentioned before, most of them consisting of just her and 2 or more guys. The husband was upset with her deception at first but it led to them experimenting and enjoying their sex life even more. Ironically, even though they both claim to be in an “open” relationship, they both have broken the rules at one point and slept with someone without letting the other know.

    I was directly involved in the other situation and it kinda soured me toward marriage and showed me that you can’t take a loose woman seriously no matter how good she makes you feel. To get right to the point, back when we were in college, my cousin and I spit-roasted an Hispanic cougar old enough to be both our mothers. She was in her mid-40s and also happened to be married as well as a grandmother. She had been with her husband for over 20 years and had 3 kids with him (she also had 2 more from previous relationships) but had cheated on him numerous times throughout their marriage. She claimed “she loves him but he’s too jealous and limited sexually.” According to her, she’s always been sexually adventurous and had her wildest moments before settling down and that her husband knew about “how she was” for the most part. She told us her and her husband have done threesomes in the past but only with another woman and they’ve gotten into arguments when she suggested they add another guy instead or at least have an open relationship.

    I’m definitely not one to judge and I was more than happy and satisfied I got to experience that woman’s body but when I broke it down in my head what happened that night, I couldn’t see myself taking a woman seriously I know had been around the block. It wasn’t just that we had both fucked her but the way in which we did it before sending her home to her husband and kids. She basically begged us to ravish her and allowed us to do whatever we pleased, even to the point of her realizing she bit off more that she could chew. I gotta say the alcohol played a major factor because it dropped everyone’s inhibitions, especially hers, and we completely turned her out. Once it was all said and done, we fucked her to the point of near exhaustion and each came in her multiple times, all bareback.

    The kicker for me was that she barely knew who I was. We had only seen each other twice before in passing and the night we finally met and had an actual conversation was the same night my cousin and I tore her apart. Literally, about 3 hours after first meeting her she was sucking my cock and around 2 hours after that I was cumming in her asshole. What threw me for a loop was that she decided to get a conscious and realize the situation right as I was blowing a load in her ass, turning around to give me this mixed look of pleasure, shock and resentment, almost as if to say “I can’t believe you’re doing that!”

    Once we were finished, she stayed just for a bit to shower and chat but left soon after. She told us it had been more that 10 years since she’s had more than one cock at once and told me I should feel lucky since the last time someone other than her husband had been in her ass was before she got married. I remember saying sarcastically “you’re husband’s the lucky one!” making everyone bust out laughing.

    Once she left, I couldn’t believe what had just transpired and even felt a little bad for her husband. On top of that, my cousin and I talked about how we barebacked her and maybe that wasn’t the best idea considering what type of woman she was. I couldn’t believe she could just go home and act normal after being fucked and filled with cum in that manner. Its one of those “laugh to keep from crying” things for me and the reason I subconsciously refuse to take a slut seriously. You never know when that type of woman will just decide to let that part of herself out. Contrary to what you might think, no mans’ cock or general sexual prowess is enough to satisfy those urges and to be fair it works both ways.
     
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  2. Eric!

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    Dude that was damn good!
     
  3. Dr. Banner84

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    Thanks man lol

    Just trying to break down my thought process and maybe help someone understand a different viewpoint
     
  4. Eric!

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    Makes total sense, and I think a lot of folks feel the same way. Well articulated!
     
  5. scratcho

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    If a slutty woman were to advertise that she'd be at a certain address at a certain time to take on all comers---the national guard would have to be called out to control the riot.
     
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  6. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    I wouldn't feel the least bit bad for her husband. He was not harmed in any way by this. Maybe he was even in on it and the story was a cover. Even if not, he's benefiting from her adventurousness. She obviously enjoys that stuff so he's likely getting all he wants and she's probably not shy with him in bed. So what if she gets a few young guys now and then. It's healthy for her, too. It's a win-win for everybody. I'm sure she will always remember you guys and look back fondly at the good time you had. Obviously it was a treat for you well.

    There's no reason to let this sour you on marriage or women who enjoy various men. Be honest and look for honesty in a mate. Know that if she likes to get around, that could well be a lifelong trend. If you're cool with her taking on occasional outside partners, talk about it so she doesn't have to feel like she's going behind your back. There's also a bunch of girls out there who aren't very sexual and are more than pleased to only have to put up with their husbands' ministrations.
    There's not much middle ground so pick your poison! ;)
     
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  7. In my experience, no. Being used up seems to age girls prematurely. A twenty year-old girl can look and act like a fifty year-old woman. I think it just comes with the territory of being used and discarded and growing jaded. I don't know why they get all wrinkly and haggard looking because of it, too, though, but they do.
     
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    I don't think that a "slut" is going to become jaded. Maybe a woman with low self-esteem, who's seen as an easy target, and falls for the lines fed to her. But a woman who just likes to fuck, and will roll with any friend at any time knows just what she's doing and doesn't regret it. I've got no problem with the one who knows what she wants, I've got no desire to be the next one who's going to be "different" for the easily duped into bed.
     
  9. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    I believe it's other life choices leading to "why they get all wrinkly and haggard looking".
    Seen plenty of prudes whose appearance fit that description.
     
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  10. Tonynewyork6969

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    My gal is totally sexually experienced as I've written before. I'm 56 she's 46. Each over one hundred partners.
    A local coffe shop girl who we know and I have always teased each other. She's 27 but has been candid about having only three partners. Great body just shy. So in jest one night my gal said that if she ever needs some, that she would,volunteer me! Anyway We were in the cafe Saturday night and there she was. So after some pleasantries and our order she asked my gal,if she could take us up on our offer. We agreed to meet at our place after her shift. To cut to the chase she has a smoking body and a tight pussy,but really no skills. My gal has he really power pussy moves which can envelop your cock and milk out the cum. I ate her out till,she quivered and cried. Fucked her and made her squirt. My gal taught her some rymthym pelvic moves and the art of a porno,blow job. It was a great evening but no,question a gal that's been around and has fucked them by the dozens certainly rules!!!
     
  11. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    Wow, your wife really did that gal a great service! I bet her confidence level along with her competence level has received a big boost. She's likely to have a happier life now. And actually do something about reducing violence in our society. Draining cocks is a much more effective way of deterring violence than any protest would ever hope to be.
     
  12. mcme

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    Your ugly doesn't seem to be on the outside. Maybe take acting lessons, learn how to pretend to be something you're not, and see about making some changes for good.
     
  13. mcme

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    You're reading what I wrote without hearing what I'm saying
     
  14. mcme

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    Still not getting it. I'll try one more time. You're not ugly, but inside you're a fucking train wreck. Walk around for a couple of days trying as hard as you can to pretend you're someone else, a person who you like and respect. You might just get used to it
     
  15. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    All those posts got removed.
     
  16. I'm a troll

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    ^ at some point you start to wonder how there's any posts left.
     
  17. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    Yes. They only live on in quotes...

    As bizarre as all that was, it does serve to illustrate a problem we have yet to adequately address.
     
  18. Melodia

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    So much slut shaming in here...
    Even the thread is wrong from the beginning.
    I mean... who cares what other people think of us. You do what makes you happy and that's the end of the story.
    We have as a high sex drive as men and many of us want to have as many experiences as men because we like it, as they do. The hell, that disqualifies us as women? Pffft small minds
     
  19. Tonynewyork6969

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    And she’s a cock tease. We stayed at a resort for a few days and she’s be teasing the valet guy. She’s 46 he said he’s 22. Good looking w a nice bod. So yesterday as we were leaving she got him really worked up. Her tank top barely held he r36dds and her shorts showed the camel toe. Amazing as he was all red face.
     
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    It definitely is a turn on to hear of her past stories...I prefer ones where she is being particularly naughty. Also, for some reason I get really turned on when I see a hot lady, and think about the cocks she had in her mouth (makes me want to kiss her deeply) and the cum she may have had sprayed on her body....(makes me want to lick her body)
     
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