Do guys feel when a girl orgasms?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by sophieclair, Jun 11, 2008.

  1. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Hello,

    I am actually new here, and also a virgin(by choice). I was wondering if men feel when women orgasms. What does it feel like for a woman to orgasm? Also it may seem strange to ask, but how do women squirt? Sorry if these are wierd questions.

    :)Tiffany
     
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  2. Shredda_King

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    Props to you for being a virgin by choice.


    Yes, you can feel when a woman orgasms, there is a little twitch and a squeeze.

    Heavenly.



    Oh yeah, you can make alot of girls squirt by fingering her g-spot very hard and consistently until she cums, then pull the fingers out really fast while still angling up very hard with the fingers.
     
  3. pharmer420

    pharmer420 Member Lifetime Supporter

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    I can feel it when my GF orgasms. The vagina contracts as well as the pelvic muscles. The better the orgasm the stronger the contractions.
     
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  4. Xiaoyan

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    My husband can feel when my vagina contracts and relaxes during my orgasm-this excites him so much that it makes his orgasm start, if he hasn't already ejaculated inside me. I love being able to set off his orgasm this way!
     
  5. SBJimmeh

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    I can feel when my girlfriend orgasms. Makes it more enjoyable for me too :)
     
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  6. dutch

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    I definitely know when she has an O by her breathing, her wetness, and her verbal communication with me. It's pretty obvious when she begins to buck against me or when she squeezes my head between her legs. I can't say I recognize any spasms that let me know when she cums. But, all women are different.
     
  7. Alfi

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    I love to feel the squeezing feeling and at the same time I hate it. ( umm no not really )
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    I would love to give a girl multiple orgasms and I just can't get past that fantastic feeling of her first orgasm with out cumming myself and then that's all for me.
     
  8. chinquapin

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    Yes I can feel her...I did last night. the 2nd one was much bigger [and louder] than the first.
     
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    lol, I did yesterday..
     
  10. GentleBen

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    Your asking if you'll feel anything when a women orgasms, that answer to that is definatley yes.

    If you are able to perform marathon foreplay: caring, cuddling, kissing, caressing with your hands ( like the wings of a butterfly ) all over your partners body for a prolonged period of time you might just get there to that place that so few ever experience.

    Understand that there is no easy road to the "genuine" orgasm, it really quite hard to achieve for reasons that I may never understand myself.

    Here are some tips:

    When I achieved orgasm with a partner it was in a room that was freezing cold, it was close to the end of the month (women are horniest before and after their cycle) look for a girl women that you feel comfortable with and you have rapport with.

    Moonlit night, no light on.

    Caressing a women/girls body is hard on your shoulders and arms over a long time, it took me I estimate about 7 hours approximately to reach the threshhold of orgasm.

    You have to build the "sexual tension" its a bit like having a wank, it doesn't just happen you have to push a women over the edge by constantly teasing her with the caressing, things to look for is the "sex flush" this is marked by sweating above the top of her lips, dilated pupils, and look closely at her skin and look for "goose bumps" this indicates your getting somewhere and of course her entire body will be moist, as you get closer to orgasm you'll probably both be very saturated by sweat if she also doing the same to you.

    So just keep caressing her tummy, breasts, back and front of her legs, all over her with your hands, then kiss her ever so gently on the mouth and around her ear lobes, drag your bottom lip up from her shoulders to just below her ears, and keep doing that taking note of what is happening to her skin.

    When you have done that repeat, don't enter her until she asks you to, she'll know when her vagina starts to balloon, it at that stage you enter her, her vagina will be well and truelly saturated as will her body, nature has a way of helping you :p by not only lubricating the inside but also the outside.

    When both of you are dripping with sweat, you'll be able to slide her up and down on your chest really easy, so when the base of her vagina starts to "balloon" that is the moment that you insert your penis, gently slide it in and nature will take care of the rest, when you feel her vagina start to rythmically and spasmodically contract hold on gently and just go with it - the pleasure will just be too much for you to handle and you'll ejaculate inside of her ( things you notice is the rate at which her heart is beating - very fast and believe me it pounds [you'll here it in her chest]) gradually the waves of contractions will subside your penis will be limp and you'll feel this amazing euphoria and a closeness that is "heavenly". :D
     
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  11. GentleBen

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    Sorry to answer the question about so called "squirting" its something they do in porn movies, and its really just water they squirt out of their vaginas.

    Women do apparently have a paraurethral gland that I think has thirty holes that secrete a fluid - don't know much more than that.
     
  12. Annie&3?48

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    Wow! I mean shoot! That’s like the fantasy a lot of women think sex should be like. Most men don’t want to take the time. I applaud you for knowing all of this!
     
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  13. Annie&3?48

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    As for the squirting it does happen and it is real... not as much as what you see in the movies but yes it happens. Some women’s liquid can be white and watery or clear it depends. Sometime there is urine mixed in and it depends on if her bladder is full or not. I personally have to have a certain angle with my hips and my pelvic, butt and thigh muscles to contract before I have a squirting orgasm. But it’s all psychological. If my mind isn’t relaxed, I don’t feel comforted, safe or if my hands/feet aren’t warmed up, it ain’t happening. And edging is a must, the “taking a break” is what you said I think.
     
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    Yes. I love when she creams on my cock during intercourse.
     
  15. Andy Schumer

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    Not all are the same, in my experience, but not saying I am an expert.
    I felt some with different physical responses:
    Quivering on vagina. Tightening of the vagina as the muscles respond to the orgasm. Vagina loosening up. Increased wetness (more lubrication inside, gushing, or squirting)

    Other physical responses:
    Belly fluttering from change in the breathing and muscles responding.
    Hips moving in response to the stimulation.
    Change in the breathing.
    Some women show signs with their breasts.

    It can be a combination of those above, things get better with time :)

    You will only know how you are once you start enjoying sex.
     
  16. olderndirt

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    My wife's orgasms are a full-body experience, from curled toes to thrown-back head, closed eyes, and lots of noise. She has squirted with proper stimulation, but that's not common. As for vaginal feelings, I don't really know. There's so much going on that I'm sure I miss something.
     
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  18. Andy Schumer

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    One of these times she has a strong orgasm try and stop thrusting. Pay attention to how things feel with her body.

    I discovered contractions when I was on my back and a partner made herself orgasm on me.
    I discovered tightening of the vagina when fingering with a few, and from penetration with one
     
  19. olderndirt

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    I can feel her squeeze my cock as we fuck, but I don't notice if it changes when she orgasms.
     
  20. Klimax2gether

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    I always feel when my wife orgasms. At the time when she orgasms I stop all thrusting movements and experience the tightening of her vaginal wall around my cock. I have seen squirting but when she is very excited beforehand then I feel a lot of lubrication to the extent it becomes over slippery. Not all women can squirt. If they squirt it is the secretions from paraurethral glands which is located near the opening of the female urethra. This gland is the equivalent of male prostate gland. In squirting women these glands well developed and hold more secretions. The secretions are more slippery than urine.
     

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