Comparing yourself to online cock's is a dangerous thing. It's like judging how tall men are by only looking at an NBA team. For most straight guys our first exposure to other cocks is the school locker room. Even that is dangerous. A flaccid cock does not indicate erect size. I myself was 2.5" soft but it grew to 7" so I gre 4.5". I had an additional issue becuase my cock curved upward quite a bit and I thought I was a freak until I found out many girls/women love a curved cock.It does seem many of us are not happy with what we have. I wanted a straight cock and one that was much thicker. But I did all right and have no complaints. But guys compare everything, cocks, cars, hair, and so on.
Scimitar, Agree, all guys compare their dicks. I think most of the guys with "curvies" want straight outs. And most guys with "straight outs" want curvies. All guys want "thicker."
This is why watching a man and a woman have sex is more arousing to me than watching lesbian women go at it. A woman giving another woman oral is likewise not as arousing as a guy giving a woman oral. In my mind, a pair of lesbians equates to two women with zero interest in ME. Doubly rejected!!! However, more than one woman with a guy in the mix is a different story, as there's a role for me in THAT scenario.
At my gym there is always someone having a laugh when were in female company talking about my dimensions, and I have had one girl who has shown interest and more than friendly. After my workout I go to the pub for a coffee she came to join me. I think the next time I will make some positive advances
I don't think they stand dick to dick and compare but I'm pretty certain a lot of men (myself included) take a look around but keep their thoughts to themselves. When I was in the military back in the 80's there would be 70 guys taking a shower and yes, I looked around and within my mind would think things like "Damn, that cock is huge" or "That poor bastard". Hetero sexual men may look but don't discuss...Bi or gay men on the other hand may have a discussion about it. I've had several men over the years tell me while showering that I had a really nice cock, at the time I thought it was odd for them to make the statement. I guess they were hitting on me.
There is a guy at my gym he has a enormous cock it must be a foot long, when in the changing room he gets funny remarks about it which he takes in good spirits. His wife trains at the gym and also gets remarks made about it but she seems to be happy about with some of the banter
I agree with these comments. Guys check each other out all the time because we are very competitive, but also very insecure. The dick is basically the only body part on other guys that you don’t get to see on a regular basis. Yet it’s the part that society seems to judge about a guy the most, from grade school to adulthood. So obviously guys want to know where they stand compared to other guys. But the comparison is usually not flagrant or obvious the way it’s portrayed in movies. It’s usually very subdued, glances, with no commentary. And usually the only thing you have time to notice are ethnicity/color, flaccid length, flaccid thickness, circumcision status, size of balls, and whether or not he manscapes. And from that you can get a sense how common each thing is. But detailed or close up comparisons don’t happen. At least not in a locker room setting (because that would be “gay”). I will say that certain things will seem to garner longer stares, or at least more attempts for guys to get a longer look at what you have. If you fall at one of the extreme ends of the size scale (either micropenis or porn star), then most guys do want to get a closer look. Also, if you’re in the US and have foreskin (or in the UK and are circumcised), then you’re in the minority and other guys are going to find that more curious. Other than that, it’s usually quick, silent checks and then everyone goes about their business.
There is a guy at the gym who is enormous he gets a lot of remarks about it but he takes all the banter well. His wife also belongs to the gym and also has things said to her in the nicest possible way. Anyway they are happily married and have six kids so she likes a huge cock, I would love for him and me and his wife and my wife to have a fucking session
I remember a guy when I was in the Marine Corps who was massive. He was in the shower when I entered and his cock was at least 14" flaccid. That's too big, but it was nice to watch it swinging between his legs.
14 inches is too much for me. I wonder what it would have looked like erect. Biggest cock I ever saw was around 10 inches soft. It didn't get much longer hard, just a bit bigger around.
Comments were made was at school, about those who were well developed for their age, but very indirectly. I recall a couple of discussions about individuals in a mixed gender group about someone who was very large. Otherwise my original comment about discreetly and without comment applies.