I know from a male standpoint that the idea of an attractive woman pleasuring herself is definitely sexy. Is this the other way around? Thoughts on this would be great.
I think it depends on who it is. A random guy? Doesn't really do anything for me. Someone that I know or care about. Yeah, I can get into that.
i met some girl recently who told me she walked in on her live-in ex masturbating to internet porn with 4 screens. I dont think she thought it was sexy
No, I don't think it's sexy at all. There's no technique it's just all fap fap fap. And like getting in all fours and revealing hairy ass isn't going to cut it either >.>
No really - except for the end bit when their faces go all funny and the white stuff leaks out - they were hoping for some highly erotic fountainous spurt, and only get a dribble.
If the man is good looking, sexy, a fine beautiful cock, yes, I'll greatly enjoy watching him masturbating. Masturbation isn't the most exciting thing, but if the man doing it is beautiful and sexy, and his cock is special, then it becomes good. Just thinking of it, my pussy is wet.
Masturbation for me is so much more fun with company, and I do love to be watched, seems to make the orgasm more intense
But for many of us guys, it's not just fap, fap, fap. I've... and many others... have found that penis is a very complicated collection of pleasure spots that can be enjoyed alone and in various and sundry combinations. Add a few discreet piercings... I mention this only because i don't much like watching a woman ram herself with a dildo until she (pretends?) to come... but I do really like watching a woman getting very intimate with herself and her reaction at hitting the right spot at the right time... maybe it can be faked, but, by then, it doesn't matter. It's often better to look real than to be real.
So true Ruby. But a man (that I find attractive) masturbating is SO HOT. Hot and sexy, yes. yes. yes. yes. Can I help? Can I finish him off with my mouth or hand, even? Even just watching is good enough, if his preference.
I love watching if there is a sleeve of some sort, like a Fleshlight, involved. The ice ones drive me crazy.
I've honestly not been involved with a lot of women... but none of them have been the least bit tolerant of the Fleshlight. I remember one who showed me her "toy chest..." actually a large Rubbermaid trunk filled with her implements of delight. Jackrabbit, Hitachi, bullets, strap on, dildo... I got plucky and showed her my Fleshlight... ... "I can't tell you how sad that seems,' was the last comment I ever heard her say. True story.
Wait. I'm confused. So was she disappointed that you had only ONE toy or did she not like that you were using a fleshlight?? Either way, shame on her. If she were that much into sex, she should have been very sexual with you and got dirty with you and not put you down. It turns me ON greatly even thinking about a man pleasuring himself. I love watching a man's face change as he's about to climax. Hi Ruby! Yeah, I was trying to stay away. But I failed and I'm back
K so in what way is it sexy? Like for me I think girls circling around the clitoris and slowly, passionately fingering herself is amazing. Do you girls like like the whole fisting the penis thing or maybe humping a bed until climax?