Do Girls Only Climax When They Squirt? And If Not Though Is It The Best "orgasm"?

this is a logical question. see when myself (a guy) has sex he goes until he cums and ejaculates. thats the final climax, the best feeling the release. it feels great building up to it but once a man ejaculates you know you went over the top and its done, or you can recover and get off again and start the building up process again.

so thats pretty much my question. its very difficult to know if your stimulateing your female friend as best as possible. not all the time does she squirt and ill leave it at that until i have my next question, but she is always easily able to get very very wet. she says she has orgasms but obviously a orgasm is different for a man or a women. when she doesnt squirt and i ask her if it was good she says well i orgasm multiple times, to me thats as if i had sex, did not ejaculate and just hit the building up to the peak where it just started to feel good and flat out stopped having sex.and as a result i think guys call this blue balls.






i know this is hard to describe from a womens view but im just tired of feeling like i have to try and get my gf to ejaculate (squirt) everytime we have sex almost like a chore to build her up like i can take her to the edge and get her to climax and squirt-cum as well. i really am only asking everyone about this to see what everyone else thinks about it.

is that squirting orgasm really the best feeling ever for a women is a orgasm of this nature? because she does get wet, but i think i have seen white cum like substance on my cock from fucking her, and it was not my cum. so i dont know women are confuseing as hell, its like they could go on having sex for ever if the giver could go forever.

 

Girls don't always squirt when they orgasm. Some girls never do. Stop comparing a guys orgasm to a girls, they aren't remotely the same thing.

It sounds like you are already doing a pretty good job satisfying her, so I wouldn't worry so much about it.

 

thanks for the feedback. while i feel your right to say stop compareing i have nothing else to compare it to lol that is the only reason why i did.

well id still like to know from the women who have experianced it if it is the best ehhhh orgasm per say that is possible to achieve and feel,. i know theres like a clitoral one , ya know i guess they rub the outside of the vagina er something and it gets em off....weird.


(edit: i guess your right i really shouldnt worry about it but id still like to know if it is average the best feeling most intense orgasms women have...)

 

...stop believing what you see in porn.

 

"i know theres like a clitoral one , ya know I guess they rub the outside of the vagina er something and it gets them off...weird"


really? What are you like 12?

 

Most likely, "I am almost 16!!"
To the OP - internet porn is a lot like cartoons. Entertaining, but not even close to reality. Do a little reading kid before you horribly embarrass yourself.
Women do not squirt like a damn water balloon. It doesn't happen naturally.
What the porn stars do is while rubbing themselves furiously they push very hard through their cervix, almost like what a woman does during child birth...if she does it long enough and just right - her bladder will empty with considerable force.
So you are getting off watching girls pee on themselves.
If that is your thing...

 

idk man, ive been with a girl who did it everytime id pull out, and my new gf only does it sometime, maybe i am well endowed. but thanks for telling me i am 12 and 16 for never really having gone through sex ed or some shit hell idk how women get off you know theres no goal keeper with ballons everywhere confetti falling from the sky and a crowd cheering like there is when a women gets a guy off and he ejaculates everywhere and hes done. i litterally have sex for 2-3 hours everytime and ejac 3-4 times and recover insanely fast purposely bc i never know when or if enough is enough for my partner. but they always seem to enjoy it so fuck it.

 

Every time I try and suggest the same thing, I'm ridiculed by the older females here.
"It's not pee" they tell me. Even the die hard deniers of pee show link after link that it's not pee, that something else is happening and every time I read said article I find that scientists find "traces of urine". So I give up arguing about at the moment. If it makes someone feel better to believe they aren't pissing, so be it.

 

Ahhh the mystery of women, eh? A little reading and conversation with your lady would go a long way, although I have known females that have no clue how their body functions. Guys...google female anatomy, it ain't that hard. (some of this is C&P)

Women have glands called Bartholin glands.
These organs secrete mucus which lubricate the vagina. These are prominently functional in women during sexual intercourse. When a woman is sexually aroused, Bartholin Glands secrete 1-2 drops of lubricating fluid into a 1 inch long duct of the vagina known as Bartholin Gland duct or Bartholin duct. This Bartholin Gland discharge makes the Labia Minora slightly moist thus making vaginal penetration in women a more comfortable process.

Now...the elusive g-spot and gushing of fluid. Women have something called Skene's gland also. Skene's gland is part of the human female reproductive system and is located near the entrance of the vagina. There are two of them, one located on each side of the urethral opening. Some women have fairly large and well-developed Skene's glands, but others have much smaller ones and still other women seem to lack them completely. It is believed that this wide variation might be why some women experience G-spot orgasms and ejaculation while others do not.

The fulid contains a mixture of blood plasma, proteins, and enzymes similar to that of prostate fluid. Since this gland is located near the urethral opening, small traces of urine could be expelled, especially if you haven't completely emptied your bladder before sex.

Now, my opinion and experience. When pornos show women shooting across the room, I think they have put some water inside their vagina, and they push very hard.

I have had this gspot orgasm and have had fluid gush out, but not shoot out. It happens during long sexual experiences, no quickie and where I am completely comfortable and trusting of my partner.

 

You don't know how women get off but think you are pleasing them? You never know when is enough for your partner? LOL They may seem to enjoy it but at some point they will find a man who does know son, so if you want to keep having sex best educate yourself.

You say, "they always seem to enjoy it" I am betting that's NOT what they tell their girlfriends when they speak of sex with you. I'd bet a lot of money on that!

 

You need to communicate with your partner better and so does she. She should be telling you when she's had enough not just leaving you to guess. And you both should have a conversation after sex some day about what you both liked and didn't like. If it's too awkward to talk about, you guys weren't ready to have sex yet.

 

...when you're clueless.

 

Better formulated than Jackie Treehorn's attempt.

 

Yeah...there is obviously no gland with a reservoir large enough besides the bladder which can eject fluids several feet into the air. Just doesn't exist.
There are two ways of doing that...the method I described which will eject a small amount of urine several inches...and then the tidal waves on the internet are obvious fakes.

 

From my experience, I can tell you that making a woman squirt will most likely end up making her orgasm, but sadly, is not a 100% guaranteed orgasm. And this is true for the most experienced woman out there. So I would have to say that just making her squirt is not the 'best' orgasm, which is the best orgasm is hard to say - I guess individual preference may come into play here.

Personally from my experience, I think the 'best' orgasm, or at least the most intense, would be a full body squirting orgasm. Basically they squirt, moan loudly and shake their bodies, and this might last for more than just a few seconds depending on how intense the orgasm is. The cool part about this type of orgasm, is that there is NO WAY a woman can fake this type of orgasm, there's no fucking way. You can tell because she will not respond if you talk to her, she will also feel very tired at the end and is likely that she'll ask you for a break. lol.

How do you achieve this, I don't know, please tell me if you guys know lololol. I've done it a few times with my girl, but it was after very long time of thrusting that she got there, definitively pretty though to reach.