___________________________ I'm sorry to say this but I believe they hassle you because it's all about the stigma. They probally don't know that you are sick. There are some people that think that women with short hair or bald are trying to look like men. Others just think the lady might be gay. I admit when I see short hair on a lady that it makes me think. I usually try to see if the hair cut goes with the face and then I mind my business about the guessing. (It's not my business but I like long hair on people but I know that everyone can't grow hair long or want long hair for that matter.) I'll tell you this though, if you look really good and you have short hair than women will make fun of you but take it as a compliment because they are really envious of you. I hope you get well really soon.
The main reason I need my chicks to have hair is the famous ram from behind coupled with the head jerking hair pull that accompanies my ass work. The ladies love it. Although I can still administer a properly placed donkey punch in that position, the hair pulling is icing on the "treat me like a slut" cake.
IF I haven't this yet, MAY I now? I'm asking politely as I KNOW this is the "Womens Issues" forum. As a 43 year old MALE, I answer NO! A woman does NOT have to have hair to be beautiful. I'm sure you're aware of the "Alien" movies starring Sigourney Weaver??? She wore a MARINE CORPS Crew Cut in that one. I can't recall her name at this time, but there was ALSO a Tall, African-American woman who is DROP DEAD GEORGIOUS! She did a few BOND movies. BALD as a billiard ball.
_________________ I think that was Grace Jones. (She injured Mel Gibson once, I think.) Do me a favor Matt, tell the caveman above you to cool it please. lol (Just kidding)