Do Gay Men Hate Women?

People accuse lesbians of hating men.

How come people don't similarly accuse gay men of hating women??

 

In Any Group You Will Find Extremests, But In My Experience It's Very Few.



Cheers Glen.

 

starting a thread with a ridiculous statement is lame....you are now also an expert on lesbians?....how any gay person can read your op and not tell you to fuck off is beyond me

 

VanillaGorilla sure does have some strange opinions...
But he's just one guy.

 

Rolling along, I don't really think gay men hate women or that lesbians hate men!!

I'm saying people say lesbians hate men, but how come they don't say gay men hate women?

 

I think you'd find everyones online persona very different to reality

If we all rented out a function hall and met in person, I doubt I would be the male you most wanted to avoid. (Although in that scenario, I think I'd just be glued to Ash's Husband and ignore everyone else, including Ash )


Never got on with guys, never could

The OPs question is kind of like saying Do women like /hate women, in some contexts like, in other contexts they can be complete rags.

And dont get me started on the tiny percent of guys that are actually gay vs the pretenders - thats all determined by the instincts of the female half of the population anyway

 

Lol

I could ask several questions... bu I just gonna ask this: In what way are such guys pretenders when their gayness was merely determined by females? Are a certain percentage of those men swinging their bare butts at gay parades pretending to be gay? Maybe I am just misinterpreting you

 

Dont worry, you'll never get it. Most of you guys never work out how much you are giving away, with just your eyes, the whole time - that applies to every male.

Combine that with the gay lisp thing, its not genetic, its trained in, at an early age,,,from mimicking something in particular...something to do with the darker side of female sexuality. Again dont worry, most likely you'll go your whole life not working it out, or if you do wont be till after you have a daughter and you can never say it out loud to anyone, but from thereon will get old and grumpy and really angry at gay guys but never be able to say why

Anyhoo, no matter how gay they sound or act its got nothing to do with whether or not their pulse is going to go up if they see a vajayjay. These are completely different things. But dont worry again, just on that one, you'll probably go your whole life refusing to accept that or not really caring

 

I see where you are going with this again. I guess this is the right thread for it

 

As I said, dont worry your little head about it. The evils of capitalism and the effect of those nasty conspiring media corporations are far more important things to focus on.


I have overtaken this thread, I promise not to post anymore.

I will leave you all with just one (rhetorical) question....


Does TheSamantha, our illustrious OP, hate Gay Men?




Reason for edit: Samsung Autocorrect sucks big sweaty ones

 

Ok I'm female.an throughout my life,I've had 3 gay guy friends.All of them made a pass at me.Nope they're not Bi.Have made it clear to me they're "batting"for the other team.So whats that all about???
Something I've wondered about though........why do some gay guys act like a lady and some even speak like one?Hard to explain the speech thing,kinda campish I guess?Why do that?Why not just talk like a guy?Can someone please explain,Im curious.

 

It seems far more common for gay guys to hang out with a girl or group of girls, where from what I've seen they generally have a really loose friendship. The few times I've hung out with that dynamic, I've actually found girls allow gay guys to be way more forward and open around them then what they tend to allow straight guys. It's kind of bizzarre really.

 

No one straight seems to discern that I'm bi and I like it that way.

 

I think the problem is generalization. Ppl are actually individuals but we pick certain common traits and try to apply them across the board. And there are individual differences that don't fit the pigeonhole.

Yes, I have hung out with gay men in an AIDS org in the '80s that was run mostly by lesbians. Get the guys together after the lesbians have gone and the tuna jokes come out. Hostility is there, but was it hate or just venting gay guy stuff. I laffed at it, tho being bi I was married to a woman at the time.

Do gay guys hate bi guys? Yeah, I have encountered that from gay guys. I am bi but "str8 acting." NO, I do not act str8 - that is just the way I have always been. Maybe I was trained to have male acculturated mannerisms because growing up in the '50s only Liberace could act gay.

IDK why guys who identify as gay would make a pass at a woman.but I have been picked up by a woman who knew I was bi and then acted all surprised when I put the moves on her. Also, I had a lesbian friend who was living with a woman that ended up in bed with me. My theory is that most ppl are bisexual somewhere on the continuum of the bell curve and outwardly identify as gay or str8 but are mutable one way or the other.

 

I think a lot of the stereotype that lesbians hate men comes from us guys' big egos. Plus more crimes are committed against women by men than by women against men. That gives a lot of women (and men) reason to dislike, distrust, or gate men.

I personally have never met a lesbians that seemed to hate men.

I have a feeling that she doesn't hate anyone.

Well then...Pink Floyd rules, and The Force Awakens wasn't all that great. Any objections? Hahaha!

 

I bet you're just saying that because you are a hostile, defensive lesbian

 

Clearly an angry lesbian born in the wrong body.

 

Well, maybe some do, but definitely not all. My mother is a woman and I love her. My sister is a woman and I love her.