I have been in both, watching together and watching alone. Watching together has been by far so much better for both of us. We had more sex, she stayed interested in sex where others had lost interest. They are more interested in adding another person and or adding sex toys. More open to anal sex for both of us. Interested in secretly allowing others to watch us in sex with a slightly open curtain in a hotel room or in a tent while camping. For me watching porn together is the best of the best in life expanding experiences in the sex department and in life itself.
We sometimes watch porn together but its female friendly porn which is more erotic and story orientated and much less hardcore. Its useful for getting ideas to try and good sex does enrich a relationship .
We watched some but not a lot. We were to busy fucking to pay attention to someone else doing the fucking. What we did look at didn't influence our relationship. More importantly it was and still is the interaction between us that enrichened our lives together. Not pornography.
We are a senior couple. That said, when in the mood, We do watch porn on occasions. Lucky for me, my wife is perfectly fine with it. Actually she is visual and intrigue by it. It certainly does not consume us, but it does heighten the horniness.
My wife and i watch porn together occasionally but it's more female friendly porn. TBF, a lot of hardcore porn turns me off anyway. Scenes of girls getting dicks rammed down their throats while make up streams down their face (often being slapped) is horrible. Even I don't want to see that. We do enjoy things like X Art and Felucia Blow. Sexy but not crude.
She is not into porn, so no.It is the one thing she doesn't want to do. Which is fine by me really, most porn these days is absurd and sick. (incest/hardcore etc)
The talking part about your sexual desires is the best part of our relationship. We talk about sex everyday, and I mean everyday for 20 plus years. No sex subject is taboo. We do watch porn on occasions.