It’s been a long time since I had a fuck buddy. A couple marriages and day-to-day life got in the way. I am intrigued with having a fuck buddy relationship with a M/F couple. That could be hot or maybe opening up a can of worms that may be better off left untouched. Has anybody had a fuck buddy couple in the past? How did it work out? And would you recommend staying away from couples and going for a married or single woman instead?
I had several couples invite me into their bedroom. All were cool after a few drinks and mild smoke. Most were friends. For my wife it was the swingers crowd. Most couples we meet in the swing crowd, would use a bull, or guy well endowed. I would say go for it.
As a LS couple, Presently we play with couples only. That’s not to say, we would not seek out a single male or female on occasions, but…It would not be a ongoing fuck buddy scenario
Anybody lucky enough to find a situation like that should buy lottery tickets because he's found a real unicorn !
Honestly my wife and I maintain a few couples we normally play with on a regulars basis. We are in our early sixties and after being married for just shy of 40 yrs we have always shared our sexual flavors with other couples. It is not uncommon at all to have a like a minded couple over for naked play, we often swap partners and not in separate bedrooms. we often fuck others in front of each other. The best part is when they stay the night and I awaken to see another man drilling her hard and she moaning with intense pleasure until until he dumps another load deep into her.
We prefer couples. There is much less drama. Also couples are much more secure to play with, and less STD’s. We are a senior couple and really enjoy couples that are very secure in their marriage/relationship. We make it clear that sex is to enhance our relationship… not replace it. Finding a fuck buddy couple for routine sex is difficult because 4 personalities have to mesh. We also would like to spend time with them outside of the bedroom as well.
I have had a few tries and the couples were always hot to fuck hard but I found I was too self-conscious to live up to their expectations and do a decent job of fucking a woman in front of her Husband. I haven't had any follow-up invites. If I got to know a couple, I'm sure after a few sessions I'd be doing just fine. I suppose in a group environment I would be less conspicuous and come up to speed at my own pace.
We would welcome the right single men for a fuck buddy relationship, it’s the “right” part that is difficult.
I would definitely say that having a MATURE couple as fuck buddies is much better then singles. I prefer couples becuase they have all they need from each other especially emotionally and I can be just the added pleasure. No pressure to try to be something you are not, just be a fun and adventurous friend. I enjoy having older male friends who I go out to drinks or "talk shop" with when out in about in normal life. Only difference his we are normally talking about his wife. The woman normally enjoys having someone who will just give her extra attention without her having to feel bad getting it. Its a win win win
It is important that all people are comfortable, in a sexual situation. We never had any male-male contact. with other couples or mfm threesomes. You still need a chemistry for things to work out. Yes you can still go through the act, but making it something special. requires a little more. Finding couples compatible, is hard also. We knew other couples, who met single men, and enjoyed a 10 minute quicky.
It is important to note that FB couples are very secure in their own relationship. As for us if we are considered the FB, then we have the attitude to do our very best to satisfy the other couple. Along the way we practice compersion. This brings our personal relationship to a higher level.
My wife and I entertain an older couple who is as kinky as they come, we often share our partners in the same bed at the same time and it is really a turn-on watching her get boned by his monster cock, his wife is also like my wife, she is cum crazy and swallows every bit of juice I can give her.