Do couples like to have sex in the dark or lights on?

It just comes down to individual preference. Like most sweeping generalizations there are always exceptions if they aren't completely erroneous.

 

Yes .... I've known a number of women, some fairly promiscuous, who the only way they would screw is with sheets on in the dark. Frankly, I liked- still do- to see my partner's reaction.

 

i'm with you srgreene - i want to see my partner AND her reaction - i think Angela said it earlier in the thread doing it in the dark is like turning off one of your senses - now the lights don't have to be bright and glaring - soft lighting will do just fine - but i still want to see

 

I agree with you srgreene, I have often heard of this or read articles by sexologists and psychologists who talk about men's anxieties and their insecurity.

Also on this I believe that you are right. I remember that in high school my teacher of Latin and history once expressed to us students her opinion about this topic. She said that men often fear confrontation with other men. And this would be the basis of many absurd behaviors aimed at limiting women's freedom.
I thought it was a thing of the past, in reality many news stories nowadays, seem to prove otherwise.

Actually, I just wanted to say that, limited to my experience and the confidences of someone I know, I have often heard complaints from men, rather than women, about the fact that lights should be turned off in the bedroom during intimacy.
I hypothesized that perhaps it depended on a fear of the woman to show herself naked to her lover because this is the explanation that my fiancée once gave me.
It was not my intention to generalize.

 

Lights on for safety !!! She'd rather the lights be off, but I want to see it all - especially with a BJ - if she starts it one the dark, I'll flip the light on!

 

Lights on, it’s no fun if you can’t see what you are doing!

 

lights on

 

Agreed. The male body is too tempting to be hidden in the darkness.

 

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Good. Bright lights hard cock. Better.

 

Especially when seen from a very short distance....

 

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I love seeing but my wife is wracked with Catholic guilt, even after all these years so lights off in the dark it is.
I can't complain because it usually means she can let herself go.

 

I know, it is difficult to persuade the lady if she feels less confident to see the embrace.

 

Me too !...at least with some dim lights say from a table lamp...some areas of light and some areas of darkness fumes the eroticity, mystery and desire..the consensus here is at least with some light not total darkness means u can't see anything, can only feel....not good enough

 

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I'm fine with either. The lights are usually on.

 

Only once in my life had sex with lights off or more precisely outside in the dark under a sky full of exploding fireworks.
I can't image having sex in the dark otherwise unless it is with wearing a blindfold