Do and Don’ts of sharing your wife

Not particularly interested in sharing my wife but if anyone wants her on a permanent basis I am happy to pay any delivery charges.

 

Alice, My wife is exactly like that. She has the final say as to who she wants. The main difference is we play together and stay together.

 

WE HAVE SET RULES TO IF IT WAS A MFM HE PICKED I CHOICE NOT TO BE WITH ANYONE ELSE BUT HES ALSO BI SO HE DOES HAVE SOME OF THAT TIME

 

There is there is something about knowing and feeling another man has ben there and ejaculated which is very very exciting for some men

 

Maybe we could trade lol What does she look like?

 

I think I would be getting the better end of the swap. Your wife has a great body and is attractive to.

 

You should ask for a restocking fee in case they want to return her.

 

There is nothing wrong with "Wife Sharing" and if you are lucky you will become involved in a very enjoyable experience! (If it is any help to you take heart from my own experience with MFM, with my third wife,) I encouraged her to participate in a MFM experience I advertised and found a stud who visited our town every few weeks. This stud was excellent he was good at oral and massage and always out to please, some bulls can get pushy, he showered her with presents and became a friend to us both. Unfortunately he moved away to work oversea's but not before he had visited us for about 18 months. I ended up with loads of video's & pic's of his visits, they were so erotic and full of repeat orgasms, yet when I asked my wife what she enjoyed the most it was the foreplay 4 hand massage, two tongue's probing her sexual parts rather than the pounding of his 9" cock into her juicy fanny. Best of luck with your relationship experiences you only live once so make the most of it.

 

I could be wrong, but I think every woman knows which men want to have sex with her. I think it's important for her lovers to understand she's not cheating, lying, or leaving. She has one lover I've never met. She's known him longer than me, but I trust her so I'm okay with it. I would also say it's most important to celebrate the experience together every time, alone, just the two of us. She brings her promiscuity home as a gift, not just for me, but for us, and that's what makes our relationship so exciting and powerful. Our trust and communication is rock solid. Back to the point, my lady knows every single man who wants to have sex with her, and we discuss it together before she goes on a date.

 

That's the only way it works. But I do have the power to veto, and we discuss the reasons, but that's only happened once. Her 3 lovers are settled, fairly routine, nothing new.

 

When it works out for both of you, your wife having a lover, there is nothing more erotic. I think all men should take a good look at themselves and come to the conclusion that a sexy wife sometimes might need something extra to keep things on an even keel. Here are just a few of the reasons that come to mind. a) boredom eg. having the same sex with the same partner over and over again. b) A quest to find a lover for sex with better or different technique. c) A need for a bigger cock. d) the reverse to c) needing a smaller cock. e) A really good looking man that sexually excites you. f) A natural humorous man that can bring this lighthearted attitude to the bedroom, lots of women get turned on by a man's ability to have fun in the bedroom. g) A lover who excels at massage, oral and general foreplay. h) A lover that makes himself available at the request of your wife and also lives nearby or visits on a regular basis. i) A lover who accepts your marriage and has no desire to push the husband out!
I could go on but I hope these reasons add to the possibility your wife playing with others for some time to come.

 

One thing is never have too much drinking, that happened a couple of times.

 

I don't think she would be controllable and thus she would know my opinion although I get left thinking it is a hook-up with wife of other dude surrounding. Not sure what got me thinking it might be possible behind my back. Eventually, I would understand it isn't my prerogative or business to control if I can't detect it. Anybody can get away from work or whatever and do what they want.

 

Be careful what you wish for. I’ve shared my ex and current wife.
With my ex wife we fantasized and role played about it for months. One day she gets home from the gym all giddy. Says one of the younger trainers had hit on her. Asked me if I was serious about sharing her. I told her to go for it. After their first hookup I told her I wanted to watch. She asked the guy but he said no. So they continued to hook up about once a week for 6 mo, always alone. He finally put a stop to it when my ex told him she thought she was falling in love with him (yeah she told me).
Current wife and I started the same way….fantasy and role play. An attractive old college friend was coming to town, and I asked her what about him? She just grinned like the Cheshire Cat. We had an incredible mfm that first night, and another 2 nights later. Had a few more with him over the following months……all great. Unfortunately feelings were starting to develop and my wife put a stop to it.
Why can’t women separate sex from love? All these years later it’s all I think about, either during sex with her or solo fun.

 

I do believe with men and sex it is more of a physical release than emotional one. Women, being different hormonally, tend to be drawn emotionally before getting physical. Emotions carry on but the physical aspect goes away for a time.

That's why I insist with my sex partners that we are together for sex and only sex. To me this is a "do" when wife sharing. If emotions start to build it's time to back away. I think both your wives did the right thing.

 

I'd certainly agree with your sentiment that we, as married partners, do not 'own' the body of our wife or husband. On the other hand, sharing, taking it in a softer fashion is literally offering up what you have (to have and to hold) to someone else who hasn't or doesn't have it. Personally, I am fond of that image of having my wife spend some 'quality time' with another male (friend or not). Could be that the old saying 'variety is the spice of life' has lots of deeper meanings.

 

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