Do and Don’ts of sharing your wife

What do you go for

 

Pretty good rule.

 

You'd love it

 

Yes we can relate to this but I have seen it go a little wrong sometimes. Basically over not much. Men obviously have a complex hidden over their cock size and his wife's exes or experiences. But we get over it. Women too sometimes get jealous thoughts tgat their mans ex wife/gf was more attractive to him. Its crazy nonsense. Get over the nonsense and Bob's your uncle

 

Excellent advice. Angst and jealousy are your enemies. If you let those rear their ugly heads your poor wife will have to put up with you blowing hot and cold all the time and not know where she is.

give it a decent time and see how you feel but always be very supportive and appreciative of her doing it. Yes, she will appear smitten at times but just get over that. Also don’t be stupid enough to think you can control it and everything that happens. The only rule that matters is not to continue with anything that threatens your relationship. Having a sexy exciting wife is one thing. Having a sexy exciting ex-wife is another.

She needs to know you still love her and think she is amazing.

Don’t be surprised when she does stuff with guys that she doesn’t do with you. Mine came home excited to tell me that her guy had fucked her anally. Something I (not anyone else) had done. He took her anal cherry. She had always told me she never like the idea at all and never wanted to try it. Slightly stunned I just smiled and said wow. I later said I was a bit surprised as I thought she didn’t like it. She said she didn’t care for the act itself too much but it was super exciting when he said he wanted to be the first to do her. The submission was as exciting as the act.

so, accept she might be a different woman with other guys.

And enjoy every bit of it.

 

Don’t assume everyone is turned on by the same thing things. In fact, we know that’s not accurate. I’m perfectly fine with my wife showing off her body to the like-minded strangers in the sex club, but I’m not ok (nor is she) with another guy even trying to touch her. I know it would churn my stomach beyond words if another man was fucking her.

 

When we first entertained the idea of MFMs, we didn't really know who to turn to. Sometimes the thoughts of strangers turned us on, but we thought better of it. So if we did it it would have to be a good trustworthy friend. As lucky would have it one of my best friends from college was coming to town. I asked my wife what she thought about having him join us. She agreed, and when I asked him he was all for it. It worked out splendidly. He was respectful, safe and clean (no pesky condoms....wife was on the pill). One thing that had me in conflicted emotions was that he just wasn't fucking her, he made love to her. Yeah there were times when they were just fucking each other, but then back to the kissing and love making. I had to make sure I stayed involved or emotions would come into play.
WH had a few more MFMs over the next year and all were great. I did a lot more watching during the last MFM. That was pretty hot, but once I sat back and watched they basically forgot I was in the room. Really intense lovemaking. After he came in her the first time I had to have her, as excited as I was I didn't last long, and then they were at it again.
A few months later we had the opportunity to be with him again, and my wife said no! WTF? I think she was developing feelings for him, and I KNEW he was falling for her. Guess it's a good thing she put a stop to it. If it were up to me we'd still be having him join us, or maybe find a new friend to start again.

 

My wife and I are similarly minded. I'm not a jealous person. Sex is just sex.

 

Thanks. It worked for us.

 

The only shrink I ever knew was doing the same thing with his wife.

 

During our threesome, if my wife had been willing to relate that kind of detail about her sex with our friend, I'd have been much more inclined to let them go off alone, instead of insisting the I always be present. However, since getting that kind of information out or my wife was like pulling teeth with rubber pliers, it just didn't happen. She really HATED talking about fucking (doing it was another story entirely.)

 

Do most people use condoms when sharing?

 

wow,sounds like she is very good,some one i would love to know for a while,does she like oral.

 

i am fixed no worries there.

 

Back when we had our threesome (35 years ago), neither our male friend or I were "snipped" (as you say.) However, my wife's birth control pills worked like body armor and, even though we always fucked her bareback and always came inside her, we never worried about getting her pregnant.

 

I’ve never felt that “jealous” was the right word in this context.

 

Wife is more jealous than me. I have told her she can choose any guy to fuck its her choice. I also love that power being in her hands. So even if I don't want her to fuck the other guy she still can if she wants him.
My wife on the other hand is a bit more jealous than me and I have told her I will only fuck another woman if she either chooses the woman or is ok with me fuciing her

We are both happy with this agreement.

 

This seems to be a reasonable agreement. After all most it is about keeping the wife happy. I might add that we have agreed that neither one of us will take one for the team. In other word, I don’t “expect” my wife to fuck the man, if I want to fuck his wife.

 

"Don’t be surprised when she does stuff with guys that she doesn’t do with you." - this is a tricky bit to accept for me, as I get feelings of rejection (it's not) anf FOMO... But, I can deal with that cos I know we're doing this in the right way for the right reasons. Tricky though, as it's still new to us!

 

My ex husband got more excited when it was done with his friends.