Last night went out and 2 black guys immedietly came up to me at a party and started to talk. Both where nice guys but I could tell they where trying to get in pants haha. They liked the booty it seems. Anyways my other friend actually wanted to hook up with one of them but they kept dodging her and wanting to talk to me. Do a lot of black guys have a fetish for white ladies? I got both of their numbers haha! Friends angry.
I mean I know white girls who have fetishes for black guys so why not the other way around lol. I'm indian but I'm pale and have green eyes so people mistake me for white, I do get a few black men approach me often, I usually don't turn them down lol, they've been great in bed and I love the color contrast, huge turn on for me.
I think it depends on the person. My wife has been hit on by several black guys, but I don't know if it was because she is white or because she is just a sexy lady.
I don't know whether black guys like white girls, but when you use those numbers, we want details please. Lol.
Fetish? No. Strictly speaking, fetishes involve objects or body parts, and a person's racial identification or his perception of race is too broad to be considered a body part, therefore it can't be a fetish, per se. A fetish is also one that is necessary for sexual gratification. Even if race could be fetishized, which is doubtful, you're suggesting that one of these guys couldn't have an erection or reach climax with anyone but a white woman. In order for it to be a fetish, that would have to be the case. That said, there are predllections, proclivities, or other kinks involving race, but your quesiton is about how frequent or common it is among entire populations. "Two guys at a party" is hardly the basis for a hypothesis about any particular aspect of sexual attraction. You don't indicate how many people were at the party, the mix of women and men, or the racial composition of the crowd. From what you posted, I'd have to say that your curiosity based on that one incident most likely reflected a cognitive bias, and that you didn't control for the many other factors that likely had a bearing on who approached whom, for what purpose, and what can be determined about anyone's sexual proclivities from it. It would be fair to generalize that males of all races between the ages of 15 and 30 have a strong intetest in sex. When it comes to preferential attraction based on race, there isn't much credible thorough research that has been done. Even the concepts of race, black, and white vary considerably from country to country, from region to region, and even from person to person. Moreover, perception and self-identification are two very different things. You will not find any definitive answer to your question that is supported by credible evidence. That said, there are lots of data collected in the US that include self-identification of race. Marriages between men who identify as Black/African American and women who identify as White are more common than the reverse (Black women married to White men), but the divorce rate for Black men married to White women is much higher than it is for White men married to Black women. The BM-WF marriages are more numeous, but they don't tend to last as long as those of WM-BF unions. Using marriage as a proxy for sexual attraction, it's a mixed bag. Going back to your exact question: No, not a fetish, so not a lot.
Based on the info you’ve given I think you were just the sexy one...if you want to test your hypothesis I suggest you go to a predominantly black club/bar/party and then compare the number of choosing signals you get to that of the women of different ethnicities at that same event. Technically, it’ll only give you an idea of how hot you are but it might bring you closer to the truth of your hypothesis