I’m writing to give hope to everyone in a sexless and miserable marriage. I spent 18 years in a terrible marriage until I finally summoned my courage to move on with my life. I’ll never forget the marriage counselor who pulled me aside and said “your wife is hopeless, stop torturing yourself and move on”. I did what everyone reading this forum fantasizes about. I went wild. I had wild sex for a year, and I’d like to share my experiences. Everything I write is absolutely true, and I hope a few people can have equally an equally enjoyable re-entry to the world. For background, I’m 45 year old man, super fit, reasonably handsome, and I love sex. It also started with an affair with a nanny. My marriage was on the rocks, and I regularly saw a 23 year old nanny from Latvia at the neighborhood playground. She and I would talk as the kids our played. One day, out of the blue, she asked me if I was ever going to ask her on a date. I mumbled that I was married, and she said “it’s just a date!”. I gathered myself and we made a date to meet for lunch. On the day, I picked up a picnic lunch at a deli and met her at a shopping center. We drove to a big local park, with the idea of taking a walk and having a picnic. I figured the park would be safe on a weekday. Everything was going great, and we ended up sitting on a ledge overlooking a small valley. The conversation progressed to flirting and jokes about sex, and before I knew it I was leaning against the ledge while she gave me my first blowjob in years. The humorous part was me cumming in a gusher, including cumming all over my pants. This relationship progressed into an affair, with she and I meeting every couple weeks in a hotel in the city. I loved that doggy style was her favorite position. Next I progressed to Craigslist, where I posted in casual encounters. The first girl I met was about 22 years old, petite, and very cute. We initially met at a little league ball field, where I ate her on the bench, and that too progressed to hotel meetings. She loved to be fucked, and I think she liked having an older man teach her things. I eventually separated from my wife, and then I really got rolling. My Craigslist ad also found a sugar mama, a masters student who I paid $200 per month to have sex. She loved the hotels, the minibars, and having sex. I remember that she could only cum through masturbation, the first time I saw a girl get herself off. It taught me what a “hard” orgasm was all about, as she rubbed herself furiously. Next was a former co-worker. I met her for lunch, and the progressed to a trip to New York. We fucked about 7 times in a 24-hour period. She was wild, and lived up to all of my in-office fantasies. I remember leaning over with her ass in the air, and just telling me to fuck her as I always fantasized at work. There were a few meetings with an old girlfriend from my pre-marriage days, and a few more success on Craigslist. (It’s a shame there are so many lurking weird-o’s on CL, because when it works, it’s great.) As you might guess, I was rotating between all these women, enjoying the fact that they were turning me on so much. I haven’t yet done it all, but I’ve had sex with more than 15 beautiful women. Many fantasies were fulfilled. Younger girls, Russian girls, petite girls, office mates, shaved pussies, masturbating together, outdoor sex, public cum-shots, asses in the air, college students, and fucking strangers. I still have a threesome, group sex, and an orgy on my bucket list, but I’m making progress!
Good on ya, mate! You're a lucky man and I hope everything continues to go well for you. I, OTOH, am a happily married man of 34 years and I don't plan to change that. My wife knows that I want to enjoy other women and she's OK with that (last time I checked.) My problem is that there just doesn't seem to be much of a market for an old fat guy in my neck of the woods these days. It's not stopping me from looking however!
A sugar mama would pay you. You are paying a sugar baby. I'm glad you're having fun, and very sorry your marriage didn't work out. Um... feel free to tell us more details about your trysts. You know. For therapeutic purposes.
While recapturing my sexuality after my divorce there have been a few women who were/are amazing. One was a 40 year old woman with amazing breasts. Let me tell you about her. This sounds like a silly cliche, but she really is a flight attendant. I met her on craigslist, and it later became apparent that she's a highly sexual woman who has men all over the country. I think she came to terms that she needs to fuck often, and voila, CL is there to help. Women have a huge advantage in this department. What guy won't respond to a CL ad that says "a tall thin blonde flight attendant"? She and I met the first time at a Thai restaurant directly across from our airline assigned Courtyard hotel. It was a nice and pleasant lunch, with a modest amount of flirting. There was an attraction which eventually led us to meet at her Courtyard hotel room 10 minutes after lunch. Other members of her crew were at the hotel, so meeting at the room was a way for her to be discrete. I should mention she met the stereotype of the hot flight attendant image in men's brains. She was wearing jeans, but she'd be the one you'd predict as a flight attendant in a line up. When I arrived at the room there was kissing and I told her I wanted to see her naked. She quickly slipped off her clothes, with no embarrassment or self consciousness. This is a woman in touch with her needs, and she likes when men get a hard on by just seeing her beautiful body. She was thin, a shaved pussy, and breasts of an 18 year old. I can't explain it, but she has b-cups that are incredibly firm and perky, much like I remember the girls in a high school. Their relative small size meant they were natural. She's just freaky young in the breast department. My clothes came off, displaying my now rock hard cock. She blew me, me sitting in the edge of the bed, her kneeling, and it was the marvelous blow job scene 95% of married men have never experienced. She was kneeling before my cock! We switched positions, and I have to say I was mesmerized by watching her perfect tits while I ate her. Her pussy was in my mouth, her clit on my tongue, and her perfect breasts looking over the scene. She is a one women who knows how to talk dirty, and she was encouraging me by telling me to make love to her clit. Is there anything better than a beautiful woman who is perfectly comfortable with her sexuality? She loves being spread eagle, she loves talking about her pussy, and she wants to make you cum. After we both came from oral we progressed to love making. I'm a fortunate guy who can cum 2 or 3 times in a few hours, so I was ready to go. When a was on top she did something I love, when the woman is spread eagle with her pussy nudged upwards. I love when women are totally comfortable thrusting their pussy for everyone to see. We also fucked doggy style, with me saying to myself, 'I'm really in a beautiful flight attendant's hotel room, fucking her with her ass high in the air, and she's loving it'. I never like cumming in a condom, so at the magic moment I pulled out and stroked myself on her ass. She said the perfect thing, 'cum all over my ass, pump it out'. Personally, I love when women say the right things when I'm blowing my load. Men love it when the woman wants the cum. We hooked up many times when she was passing through my city. She gave me the ultimate thrill, cumming on a woman's breasts for the first time. I'd never done this in my staid marriage, and her perfect breasts were the perfect target. I constantly fantasized about her breasts, and one of our racy emails I admired her oddly young breasts. Her response...next time why don't you hold your massive cock in your hand and shoot you load on them? It happened just like she described, with her smearing my cum over her nipples with a satisfied smile on her face. I still remember the size of that load.
the flood gates have definitely been opened. Play safe, have a great time and keep us up to date, those of us that can live vicariously through you!
The first woman I fucked after my divorce was (are you ready?) my EX-WIFE!! She called, asking me to lend her the money for a deposit on an apartment and when she came to get it, I told her she would not have to pay it back if she'd let me fuck her! She was glad enough to do that, so she just took her clothes of and spread herself on the bed. I treated her like the whore she was and fucked her in a way that was strictly for my own pleasure. It was, in all honestly, the best fuck I ever had with her, since I didn't have to worry about getting her off, too. I just shoved my hard cock up that well-used pussy of hers and gave her the kind of fuck that pleased me! The surprise was that she came too, and came big, as I was pumping my cum into her ****! I discovered that she really enjoyed being "used", the way that a lot of other guys had used her, instead of having someone (like me) concentrate on her pleasure first! And, for the first time, I did not use words like "Love-making" or "breasts" or "vagina". I said "Fucking!" and "Tits" and "Pussy" instead! We did fuck a few more times after that before we both moved on!
Son of John, I can relate to your feelings about sex with your ex. I've never done that (not with my frigid ex!), but one of my girlfriends sometimes tells me to just fuck her to get myself off. When she's in this mode she doesn't care about her orgasm. She just knows I need to cum, and she just says 'just fuck me and have fun'. There's something raw about fucking to get off, and I love the moments are all about me. A few times when she wasn't in the mood she'd ask me to jerk off for her. Sometimes I'd ask her to get naked and show me her pussy. In this case she'd be like my personal porn model, and I'd just jerk off while looking at her pussy. Sometimes I'd ask her to touch herself, and other times I'd tell her I wanted to cum on her pussy or clit. I admit, I love the exhibitionist aspect of jerking off for her, and cumming in this way. I wish I could explain it, but I love love love looking at pussies. I love when she shows it to me, and stroking myself to the view of a pussy us still one of my favorites. Some guys are tit guys, but I just love looking at a nice trimmed pussy. If the woman is comfortable showing it off, I'm the happiest one-on-one voyeur ever! Rather than internet porn, sometimes I do a google search for "Tumblr girls flashing their pussy". There are many beautiful women in thus world.
Gonna go out on a limb here, but if you had used words like "ass, pussy, tits and fucking" etc all along, you might have avoided divorce. Just saying.
