dislike my vaginal contractions.

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by gray_bird, Mar 21, 2014.

  1. gray_bird

    gray_bird Guest

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    When masturbation I used to orgasm without vaginal contractions. Which was very enjoyable. It was more of a heat flash moving through my body.

    Now, I'v started having these vaginal contractions. Which I don't enjoy. My vagina feel's like a fish gasping for cock when this happens, and I can't concentrate or feel the clitoral orgasm.

    I'm worried, I wouldn't mind so much if I was having sex, but during masturbation iv lost my special little fireworks.

    Does anyone know what i'm talking about? How to change it.
     
  2. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    Whip it! Whip it good!
     
  3. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    It's the body's way to help move the sperm up into the cervix.

    You can't fight nature.
     
  4. gray_bird

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    Cause my body is a vessel for making babies. and the only reason to have a orgasm is to help the sperm.

    How about gender reverse. Im a man and I ask "I want my orgasm to last longer."

    "Its the body's way to impregnate as many women as possible. You can't fight nature." lol :2thumbsup:
     
  5. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    Lol, calm the fuck down feminazi.

    Your shitty gender reverse isn't even comparable. It would be more like, "how do I orgasm without ejaculating."
     
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  6. LM2014

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    Actually, the body was designed that way. Why else do you think it would contract, if not to move the sperm further into the body?

    OP, mine has always contracted when I have an orgasm. It feels great! If you are having discomfort or pain, see your gynecologist.
     
  7. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    I love it, it feels soooooo good. But there I go being a selfish guy :)
     
  8. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    I'm glad someone around here has some damn common sense.
     
  9. RandomVegan

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    old wives tale, started I am pretty sure by a flawed study. New studies indicate


    CONCLUSION:

    The bulk of the reported evidence favors the conclusion that the female orgasm, with its concomitant central release of oxytocin, has little or no effective role in the transport of spermatozoa in natural human coitus.


    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21210957
     
  10. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    I'd like to see more than one source on that.
     
  11. RandomVegan

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    NO ONE ever reads the freaking article!


    METHODS:

    Using a variety of search engines, mainly peer reviewed articles and un-reviewed books were examined relating to sperm transport and function in the human female genital tract in the absence and presence of arousal to orgasm.




    THIS study is a grouping af a whole bunch of articles on all sides and they reach a conclusion.
     
  12. LM2014

    LM2014 Member

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    You misunderstood. The CONTRACTION is to help the sperm move further into the woman's body. The ORGASM is nature's way of rewarding us for sex (so that we will have sex and then procreate.) IF it was painful for both genders, the human race would have died out a long time ago.

    If vaginal contractions weren't to help sperm move into the body, then why would it contract with an orgasm? (Note, mine contracts when I have an orgasm. No penis is required. But the body does what nature intended.)

    Food is moved down your esophagus via muscular contractions when you eat. Muscular contractions have a purpose.
     
  13. Vanilla Gorilla

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    And/Or depressurize the kitchen :)
     
  14. highdrive

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    Hmmm...maybe get yourself a toy and give your body what it's asking for?
     
  15. Just_a_woman

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    Female orgasm isn't necessary nor desired for reproduction. That's why so few women have vaginal orgasms.

    If females were supposed to orgasm, that would pose the risk of female climaxing before male and stopping copulation before male had an opportunity to orgasm.

    Observe nature.
     
  16. Just_a_woman

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    Try to identify the cause of the change. Are you masturbating differently?
     
  17. Abyssinian

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    My favourite theory on this is the one about how when the female orgasms, she's less likely to stand up afterwards. What happens when you stand up after sex....
     
  18. Bunnielight

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    I don't know why you wouldn't enjoy that. Lol. It's even more enjoyable for me because the man enjoys it.


    <3 Bunnie
     
  19. CaptainAmazing

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    Well, when a penis receives a warm hug, it feels loved and appreciated. :sunny:

    I doubt I'm the only guy here who gets highly aroused hearing "my vagina feel's like a fish gasping for cock." That's partly from imagining how terrific that would feel like around an erect member, but also because men who see women as more than self-serving masturbatory sex toys want to think that women are "gasping for" and will be pleasured by what we have to offer them sexually.
     
  20. LM2014

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    You make a good point about the female stopping sex. BUT
    1. If sex didn't feel good, why would she allow it? (The first couple of years, sex was painful then not pleasurable for me. Eventually it got better and I enjoy it, but only because I have a clitoral orgasm before we have sex. This brings me to my second point.
    2. Why do women have clitoral orgasms then? (I've never had a vaginal orgasm, so by your logic, men have sex, sperm is introduced then the female has her orgasm and it's over. No need for clitoral orgasms.) That just doesn't happen with me. I really am curious as to how many women have an orgasm after he finishes.

    In our relationship, I orgasm first, then we have sex and he orgasms.
     

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