Are there women who dislike having a guy cum in your mouth? Mostly for curiosity and statistics, not judgmental on the subject. Do you happen to dislike, enjoy or just okay giving ora?
Yes but my wife fwb and fb enjoy it, I have met many over the years that are not fans of it but in some situations will enjoy it over their tits and stomach and even in their pussies. I am very respectful and either ask or they will give me an indication what they prefer
With me, it is the majority of women who quite specifically gave that dreaded five word command with cock in hand...'don't cum in my mouth'.... and of course, if you wanted the blowjob, you complied, hoping at the last moment she would change her mind but always ended up with it splattered all over you. I bet if you lined up 100 long term married men, 82.7 of them would say she never would do it, or won't do it anymore, or at the very best, does it quite reluctantly for birthdays and just maybe Christmas. 13.2 of them lie about it, embarrassed, thinking everyone gets it like in porn, and the remaining 5.1 don't remember or just have that glint in their eyes...
My wife would NEVER take it in her mouth. Most everyone I see now do. I'm older now and most of the women I see are older too so there's not much discussion. For the most part they all like it or accept it. I don't tap the back of their head to warn them. We all know what's going to happen. I do love cumming in a warm mouth!
I met all kind of.. some allowed me to cum in mouth but spitting afterward, no swallowing., some absolutely no cum in mouth, and rare oral action.. other loved my cum and wanted to swallow as much as possible
To me, CIM is not necessarily swallowing. I've had times where she took my load and spit. Others have dripped it over her and me but not swallowed. Some pass it to me to swallow. Most swallow. It's all very good.
I remember a woman (neighbors' wife) I was with, she told me up front she wanted to taste me. She went down on me, and I knew from the start she was going to take my load. She was very skilled as she took her sweet time and 30 minutes later, I'm pumping my load in her mouth as she continued to suck my cock as the cum was oozing out of her mouth and down my shaft. She sucked me dry and limp to then lick up every drop from my cock and balls. The sight of my cum running down my shaft as she continued to suck on it was priceless.
Back in my youth decades ago, I had a regular SB. I would swallow, and most of the time he would spit. Women ran the spectrum. When I met my first real girlfriend in college, we were both virgins, and somehow thought we could stay that way….. “ Pure“. So oral sex was our limit for a while. She seemed to love swallowing. Even when we started having sex, she had me fall out and took me in her mouth, always swallowing. I think she spoiled me for subsequent women. I had a few subsequent LTRs where it seemed like initially in the relationship, they were eager to swallow, but the longer the relationship, the less enthusiastic they were. I could go down on them for hours, but they lost their enthusiasm for giving head. My ex-wife was a perfect example. She seem to enjoy swallowing, until I put a ring on her finger. BJ’s became more in frequent, To the point where she asked why I expected it? I could go down on her all day, but she would not reciprocate. so if I was lucky, I would get it for an anniversary, Christmas, and on February 29th. Current wife of 2 1/2 decades, always swallowed, or kept it in her mouth for sexy cum kisses. Sadly, it has been a couple of years since I came in her mouth, or anywhere in her.
I still think of that girl in college that ruined me for life with bj's and CIM. My toes still curl when I remember....
My wife enjoys it. Enjoying it more when kissing me afterwards. She also loves giving me visuals (letting it run out and then licking it up for kissing). She tod me from the beginning, that a man who will not kiss her after she let him CIM then he's not worth her time.
One of my FWB doesn't necessarily like her actual mouth filled. I mean, she'll take it all in her mouth and swallow it like a mouthful of liquid but she prefers swallowing as I'm releasing. She's given more blowjobs that I've ever received so there's not much to figure out for her. As I harden up and get longer and fatter, by then she's relaxed her throat enough to have sucked my cock to it's base many times during the session. If she feels the telltale swelling that means I'll be losing it soon, she adjusts her position so that she can get my cock all the way in, and then works her tongue on my shaft and her hands on my balls and makes sure I'm playing with fun parts of her body. On my first spurt she starts swallowing and it all goes right in. If she's havinb a problem taking a breath and comes off for a gulp of air we might have an accidental "in mouth" release or even on her face or some other part of her body. If it's outside her mouth, I get to clean it up but otherwise she swallows it all. She says that She tastes it when it's in her mouth but if she swallows it right down her throat, it's nothing.
There are, obviously, both men and women who do not like the taste and/or feel of cum in their mouth - that's why it's always been called an acquired taste... and not everyone acquires it. Some have been traumatized by it, i.e., those women who had a guy tell them that he wasn't going to cum in their mouth - and that's exactly what he did and whether it was truly an accident or done on purpose makes no difference and, yes, I know guys that had this happen to them and they'll suck your dick but you can't cum in their mouth... and it's gonna suck to be you if you do. I'm a life-long cocksucker and there are times when I don't want a guy's cum in my mouth or he cums in my mouth, it tastes pretty shitty or the consistency of it is threatening to make me barf so... I spit it out. I've made guys mad doing that, but you don't get to tell me that I have to swallow it when I know I don't have to. It's just that we have always presumed that if we get a blowjob, the person giving it has to take our cum and swallow it and if they don't, well, they're some kind of fucked up when, in reality, they don't have to allow it in their mouth if they don't want to. Is it true that a lot of male cocksuckers swallow? Yes, it is - and it's also true that a lot of them don't and won't and if you want to know why they're like this, ask them. And I'll say it: Those who don't suck dick also doesn't know what it's really like to have cum in your mouth and if you really want to know, try sucking a dick or, if you can manage it, jerk off and try to swallow your own cum.
I've been with about 6 women and only 2 of them liked/ desired cum. I think they are in the minority.
I've screwed around with a girl from work who hates the way cum feels on her tongue so much that she'll let me cum on her face or any other place I can imagine, as long as it's not in her mouth