There are A lot of married guys here who think about sucking dick. Well so do I but diseases stop me cold. So my wife and I do something a bit different. She has a squirtable strap on and uses watered down yogurt. Unexpedly she will walk into a room with the dildo protruding from the front of her jeans and say, "blow me bitch." It is an unbelievable turn on and it turns her on also.