Dirty Talk Gone Wrong

So I have been in a relationship for about 3 months with this girl. We have a great time everything is healthy. The other day she was reading a book in bed and I got the urge. So I jumped up on top of her and started making out. As we were making out, I said I wanted to "pound her". I don't know why I said what I said, but it hit the brakes right there and she got upset. I didn't mean it like in a vulgar way, but it also just kinda slipped out after a few drinks too haha. Guess the point is she is upset and not sure if she should be, any thoughts guys? Is she over reacting a bit too much as well?

 

was "pound her" your lead off?? or did you start off romantic "I love you so much oh babe your so sexy and hot" and then "pound her?"..

over reacting ,, yes..

 

Hah, I know better than that by now. I would never switch the mood like that. It was pretty hot and heavy so I guess it kinda just slipped out. I didn't think it would pull a red flag, but two days later she is still a bit ticked. Which is starting to get me ticked now too.

 

Tsk tsk. No one wants a pounding. What we really want is that ""puss hole smashed out". give that a whirl.

 

Well I'm sure people say a lot kinkier stuff than that to their SO. In all honesty I think somewhere in the past I have said worse things with far better results. I could also understand if we were together for a short amount of time. Even if it was the wrong thing to say I wouldn't have thought it would put her in a foul mood for more than one night. But again I guess we never know.

 

Initially=over-reacting

Still pissed 2 days later=drama queen

I say much dirtier things in bed and have never had a woman react that way.

 

Thats not so bad. I walk into the bedroom and say to my husband "Hey, you wanna fuck?" Then we pound.

 

Glad to see I'm not going crazy. Sad part is its not like we are teenagers or even in college, you would think maturer heads would prevail. Drama Queen may not be to far off the mark on this one. Maybe I should throw the "you wanna fuck" line out there and see what happens.

 

If she doesn't at least laugh at the "wanna fuck" line then kick her ass to the curb. Get out while you still can. Sex is supposed to be fun.

 

No it's not

 

Next time tell her you wanna hammer her ****

 

If your sex isn't fun then you're doing it wrong.

 

yeah, i guess being male is generally fun. not always though.

 

FTFY

 

Apparently I'm the only one that has fun sex :unsure:

 

Would that have been your first chance to bump waists?

 

No, we stared like early in the first month. It always just normal sex though and I thought I would spice it up for a change.

 

Apologize profusely. You didn't mean it. It just slipped out. You love her, etc.

If she doesn't forgive you, then fuck her - not literally, but I mean dump her. She's not worth it. She'll be a pain in the ass for the rest of your life and the sooner you're done with her the better.

 

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