I’m wanting to share my wife. I’ve even thought of taking her out of town and having her be gang banged by some BBC. I would have to work on her for a while to get her to surrender to the idea of either. For those of you who went through this process, did you see a change in your wife during or after the event? Did you notice her realizing that it was better than she ever imagined? Did she do things you had never seen her do or act in ways you had never seen? Or was it the opposite and she hated the experience?
I would never suggest it , but I wouldn't condem her for asking for it or anything else, if that is what she wanted.
Being open and she's sleeping with other people - and sometimes we're doing it as a couple - did change her and beginning with her desire for women really coming to the front. Did I see her responding in ways I'd never seen before when others were doing her? Yes - and it was expected. Some experiences were very much not to her liking and we'd talk about them and just like we'd talk about the experiences she felt were extraordinary. The thing was that I didn't want our marriage to be open, but she was already cheating on me, and when she demanded that we go open, I decided that I would rather know what - and who - she was doing than to be sitting around and wondering what she's up to when I couldn't see her. Anything we did in this was her choice to do: Occasionally have sex with men one on one, primarily have sex with women one on one, and have sex with other couples together so that we could keep sharing our experiences. No way in hell would I try to get her to do something she didn't want to do, nor would I suggest anything. Like, I never asked her if I could join when she was having sex with a woman but sometimes I'd be invited to watch or participate and if was to just sit and watch, I would just sit and watch since this wasn't about me or had anything to do with me: This was about fulfilling her desires and attending to her needs but I got to have sex with anyone I wanted to and when she would propose a three- or foursome, we'd talk about it and I rarely objected to her choice of people. The biggest change I saw in her was that it brought us closer together and made the sex we had better than ever before.
My wife had a lot of sex with guys in college while I was away at another university. I knew she could have sex without it impacting our relationship. In her 30's, she was getting a lot of pressure from younger guys who wanted to fuck her, so I told her to go ahead and have fun. One condition was that she had to tell me all about it. She had a few one-time fucks with those guys until she stopped entirely at age 40. She enjoyed being desired. The sex wasn't that good, except for one older man in his 60's who was really good. It helped her self-confidence, and it made our sex hotter as she told me about her adventures. It worked for us, but I do not recommend it for anyone else.
I think that anyone who gets exposed to a wider and broader range of sexual possibilities is going to find themselves changed in one way or another; they're either going to be totally onboard with having sex like it's going out of style, or it'll be too much for their sensibilities to handle and they wind up withdrawing and generally not liking sex a whole lot. My wife ultimately decided that she liked pussy more than she did dick and I was happy to see her embrace her sexuality and doing it without having to worry about getting her head handed to her for not being straight and all that crap.
Probably a good idea. I would worry it would be too much for us. Especially me. Seeing her be done innways and react in ways ive never seen maybhe overwhelming. My hunch is that it will release the sexual woman she wants to be but cant because the rest of life gets in the way. I sense she wants to have 3 or 4 alpha’s use her for their own needs. That being double penetrated by guys all 8” plus would be the most intense sexual feeling she ever experienced. Once these men saw her they would totally take over. She has a body made for sex. Short , curvy, big ass with proportional thick thighs. Heavy hanging tits. Perfect.
Let’s cut through the chase here. 1) Have you and your wife ever done a swap of any sort? 2) Set your expectations low. 3) Check your emotions at the door. 4) It’s always best to let things like this happen organically. If you push your agenda on her and others, it could be a disaster. 5) Finally, This needs to be “her” idea not yours. All that said, There are so many levels of the lifestyle and we enjoy it, but we have our stops in place as well.
the closest thing has been, on two seperate occassion she gave guys handjobs to completion in front of me. They groped her of course and and she let them. We had incredible sex after. Both times we on vacation and just happened. The second was a bbc and she still brings it up when she’s horny. Saying tjings like, “” you liked watching me make that big cock cum Didn’t you?” I say yes and ask her of she wished that she would have let him Fuck her. She always just shakes her head up and down. I’m about to get a hand job from her in about 30 minutes. Ive been out of town a few days and she always jerks me off after i get out of the shower after getting home. Plus i asked her if ibwas getting one and she said “unless you dont want one then yes”. I’m going to bring it up and she if she will talk about it.
I understand you wanting to share your wife, but to start off with a BBC/GANG ‼️??? Good luck with that! I’ve shared both my ex wife and current wife. But a gang bang was totally out of the question. Ex had a single lover for 6 mo…..although she did his roommate one time in a MFM. I was never involved, either joining or watching. A hot wife scenario. Someone she was comfortable with. Current wife we had several MFMs with a close friend WE were both comfortable with sharing her. If I had even suggested a BBC GANG BANG she’d have cut my dick off. She’s not in to BBC or GANG BANGS! We both find the idea degrading. But we did find the more intimate MFMs very satisfying. No way inviting (if you could use that term) anonymous strangers to f*ck your wife on a whim…….I’m calling troll.
She did change but for the positive, her attitude became more open to sex with other men, she became more self confident, improved her self image, became more adventurous. Takes better care of herself. Her sexual skills have improved as well. Practice does make perfect and she practices a lot these days.
Only changes were for the better. We had open relationship, but told each other who and how, after she started having sex with other men, she was more into hearing about my affairs. Only downfall her first time was at a group get together. The couple never called it a swingers party, for the fact they didn't want word spreading, but that's what it was. The new girl got the guy with the big cock. I didn't mind the talk about him, referred to as donkey dick. But I wish it had been a more private thing, without 5 or 6 other couples knowing. Plus the bedroom door left open, and others checking out the action.
As time went on my wife seemed to enjoy MMF threesomes more and more. Early in the relationship there was a good number of women she was bringing around but that dwindled. Her insatiable appetite didn't chsnge, but her focus shifted.
