In real life, I only knew two promiscuous people. Both are women. I remember my time with them from age ~10. One striking common thing about both of them were their generosity and kindness towards children. Not theirs but of others. The first one would tend, bathe, massage and care for many babies in the entire neighborhood. So many children grew up calling her aunty and many also call her grandma. Many of them stays in touch with her even after they grew up. Some call her mom. They even do video calls with her as they had moved to other cities. The second one was much younger; very different from the first example; but still super kind, generous and caring of us kids during our preteen years. During our summer holidays, she made pancakes in our favorite cartoon shapes; made ice cream at home for us. She was very kind and never ever complained how noisy or mischievous all day long in their house and yard. I just wonder whether there is a connection between being promiscuous and generous? or am I reading too much into my memories? What is your observation if any?
We are a LS couple and I tell you for fact, the lifestyle community is a very kind, caring and generous group.
I am not sure if it is a general blanket statement because I know some people who are all around aholes who see people as their their objects to manipulate into whatever they want. They are very promiscuous and infamous for one night stands, most of the time cute until you realize how shitty they truly are. But I will say my experience in the lifestyle backs up the above comment. As well as my experience around people who do alot of public service. I know alot of people who have made careers and lifestyles out of caring for others, they tend to enjoy letting loose and when they do that caring for and being cared for becomes very sexual.