Did you ever wonder if any of the other sexually lonely husbands that you cross paths with are Bi or as curious as you are? You may never know. Neither would they. Is there any kind of discrete sign, like loose fists together, thumb wrestling. Shoelaces, one double tied, the other regular? Maybe You really don't care and sit there and check out every other woman in the place and daydream without getting slapped in the back of your head by your wife? Do you sit
Many times I've wondered about some of the married men I've crossed paths with in my life. I'd say inside my head "I'll bet he has a nice cock" or "Damn, I'd like to suck his cock". In my first marriage we had six other couples we'd get together with once a month because the wives grew up together in the same neighborhood. There was a couple of the husbands I would have really enjoyed sucking off but never had the nerve to bring the subject up.
If you find out,please let me know. Many times I've looked at married and single male friends,and strangers,hoping for a sign of the curious side that lives inside them. Perhaps there is a sign that could be started,if it gets spread around and only known by us curious guys,well then the sky's the limit ; )
Your looking in the guys eyes as you meet and shake hands,as you withdraw your hand after the hand shake you slide a finger across his palm slowly. What do you think?
Only times gaydar worked for me has been at ABS. First time it happed I'd gotten a nice blowjob there a few weeks earlier and was looking for a repeat. There were only two of us in the store, we made eye contact, he rubbed his crotch and I nodded yes. We went into a booth, I unzipped him and sucked his half-hard six inch cock into my mouth. I was enjoying sucking him when he pulled away. He wanted to find another man to watch us. He pulled me out of the booth, hard cock still out of his pants and asked another customer if he wanted to watch me such his cock. So the three of us go into the booth and I continue my blowjob. He told the man watching what if felt like and made other comments about my cocksucking then shot his load after a couple of minutes. "You want him to suck your cock?" he asked the third man. He pulled out his cock and I started sucking. Guy one was jacking his cock and talking about how good a cocksucker I was while I sucked guy 2. Guy 2 didn't last long until he cum in my mouth. Guy 1 says he's ready and I sucked another load of cum from him. I went back and fourth between their cocks until both were soft. Guy 2 didn't cum again but Guy 1 dribbled a little more cum before wilting. That was my first time having someone watch me suck a cock and I liked it. Maybe gaydar in an ABS is like hunting over a baited field but it has worked for me several times.
I've only wondered (more like fantasized) about my hair dressers new husband. He is fit and handsome, and a real cool guy. But he is also a cop so I would think even if he was bi, he wouldn't act on it, to prevent exposure. Not that I would tell.
The finger slide was foreign to me until some time ago as a guy I just met was shaking my hand and did this to me. I didn't know what it meant at the time and didn't do it back but read about it some months later. Then this past Sunday I shook the hand of my niece's husband who I know well and he did the finger slide on me. He's always been a hugger with anyone and abit of a prankster so I don't know how serious he was. I do know many of his friends and they all spend alot of time together away from home fishing, hunting, motorcycling etc... Somehow I wouldn't be surprised to discover sex between them is on the agenda. He's a cool cat and alot of fun but I would be too afraid to give him the finger slide. Abit too close to home so to speak. As for women, they problem give each other the finger slide but I doubt it's on their palms.
Must be booths sized for handicap only! The ABS near me barely leaves room for me. With it's chair, wall mounted paper towling rack and large wastebasket meant for cleaned up cumloads there's not much room left for me. I'm not experienced like you so I guess I need to get creative. Moving those items into the hallway at this ABS is not an option. I have an engineering mind. It sounds like a project right up my alley!
