Did She Really..

I don't know... Perhaps Mr. Creepy? or Mr. Stalker?

There's no confrontation when texting. If she wasn't woman enough to say it when she was approached, she could've easily make it crystal clear when he texted her. Instead, girls like her prefer to keep toying with a guy's emotions... and thus he's left wondering, while his feeling are being cruelly played on.

 

If I tried to make feel bad about it would make me look paranoid an picky. If I did get into the nitty gritty with her over it, she could always just say that I got the number wrong and there wouldn't be anything I could say about that.

But I doubt she'd ram it up my ass since she'd probably try avoid controntation

 

Creepy.. how exactly?? I'm a stalker because I asked her out?

 

I say that because of the way you seem to be clinging on to this still, after all the feedback you've gotten here. Please read this carefully... SHE'S NOT INTO YOU BRO! How many different ways do we have to say it before it clicks? Yet now you're snooping around her FB page and tracking her activity?? Yeah... that's a bit creepy and stalker-ish.

 

Oh yes, but she definitely doesn't suspect that. So my point stands unrefuted

 

So let me get this straight... because you think the girl is unaware of it, in your mind it doesn't classify as stalking?

 

Stop avoiding the point. Its legal to 'stalk' someone on facebook.. besides I only took one look. She decides what things to make public to the world on facebook. However, I do respect her boundaries and don't cross them so she doesn't considering me Mr Creepy.. Perhaps Mr Nice guy

 

Looks like shes studying "mr fake" a lot. Or maybe Mr Flaky, or maybe Mr Passive, or Mr Weakling. You would think she'd know how to treat others, if those fake, rude, and player are the type men she dislikes.

 

OP, as I've said before, some women are like big game fisherman. They like to reel you in, play with you for a while and then chuck you back in the water, bruised, bleeding and confused, while they search for a better catch.

It's why men walk around going WTF?? about women. Imagine how a marlin feels when it is thrown away after 5 hours of pain, torture and effort. That's men.

Sure, not all women behave like that. But enough do that it is a common complaint.

 

you're assuming she considers you a mister.

 

What's that supposed to mean? She knows I'm not a woman

 

i can't really explain, or even really understand the female mind. but they seem to separate males into two groups: 1) men, which is the group all sexual/dating prospects fall into. and 2) some sort of mysterious sexless being, which in their mind is incapable of having or even desiring any sort of sexual relationship.

 

I guess I might call the number on private to see if someone answers

 

Why don't you just find a way to get her address and go hide out in front of her place? Then you can follow her (without her knowing of course) and then "accidentally" run into her while she's out and confront her in person.

 

i'm confused. This girl made excuses and either gave you a fake number or isnt replying to your texts.....and yet you think she's toying with you and not making herself clear? I think she made herself pretty clear. Whether or not shes wrong for not being more direct isn't really the issue because I think its pretty obvious she isn't interested.

 

But she was caught off guard, since it was out of the blue.. so the answer was going to be an automatic 'no' no matter what, since the thought hadn't crossed her mind. She has surely thought about it.. whether she likes me or not. Because she must have been flattered and all. She surely must have contemplated what the two of us together would be like!

My sister is considered good looking and she always contemplates about the semi idiots that hit on her. She might even kiss a few of them.. but wouldn't go the whole way. I wish she'd have just taken the view of 'why not'. If it was some drunken disrespectful player in a nite club she might have

 

I am beginning to see that this girl gave you a fake number because her instincts told her you were a creep and she wanted nothing to do with you. I feel sorry for any female that does give you a real chance and then things not go your way.

 

As for the first section I have highlighted, that is simply wrong. Why must she have been flattered? Why would she have surely contemplated anything? And if she did, perhaps the result was not flattering to you.

As to the second section, if you think she rates you below a drunken player, maybe you should take the hint.