So me and this girl have been dating for a few months but shes not really my girlfriend yet if that makes sense. anyway me and her are making out and were about to move to her bedroom and than she gets a call from this dude mike and it turns out shes been fucking another dude while shes been seeing me thats just really fucked up
That really sucks. But after a few months you should have already had a talk about commitment. One thing I've learned, is you can't rely on the other person to just assume because their assumptions will always be different than yours. Regardless, your situation still does suck but good thing is you know she's not the one for you.
I would tell her you're feeling jealous, but in a respectful way that doesn't make her out to be the bad guy. Afterall, if neither of you have made any promises to each other, then she has no reason to feel bad. This other guy might mean nothing to her. It's 2015- nothing wrong with a girl having a fwb. If you don't actually want to be with her and are just feeling competitive over some girl you're banging, then that's another issue that you need to deal with on your own. It's unrealistic to expect commitment from her when you're not willing to give it. BUT if you're into her and want to be with her, tell her so. If she wants a relationship with you, she will likely ditch this other dude and focus on you. If not, hopefully she'll be honest with you about that and explain she's not looking for a relationship.
there's this girl i've been stalking for a few months. she's not my girlfriend or anything; i've never actually spoken to her. then i found out that she's fucking some other guy. what a fucking bitch, right?
interesting what man could complain bout. No personal relationship - just meeting, than complain why she's fucking her friend. Perhaps I should also complain about my boss? I wonder if she does that dick move as well .... Cause the way she looks in the morning sometimes ... :dizzy2:
If you don't graduate to boyfriend after a few months of dating, then I'd guess she's not really into you. I slept with my ex a few times after we broke up, and even once or twice while I was talking to someone new. But once we were established as dating, I cut him off. It's just the right thing to do.
