I completely agree with your post "aloneinabigbadworld" that's another great option in giving females more power, making them know that they in fact DO have the power. As for the use of condoms, it's a personal choice that people have to accept the risks with...if you choose not to insist that your partner wears a condom, then to be honest..this may sound brutal, but I'm not going to really feel bad for you if you get a sexually transmitted disease or pregnant, especially here in North America, where condoms are available EVERYWHERE and birth control is as simple as visiting your family physician.