Looking back over the years, I’ve kept track since 2017. Used to keep track of sex, but no longer an option. 2017 was 163 self induced pleasures. Not shabby since we were still having sex. A slow but accelerating decline to 2023……TWENTY FIVE! ;( I know I’m older (62) but this is depressing! I know several guys brag about multiple times a day, but I don’t feel the need, or have the time. The wife frowns on me indulging in self gratification, but my numbers are DEPRESSING! Anyone else?
Surely the number is irrelevant and you shouldn't feel depressed if you are satisfied with your orgasms and you don't feel the need? If you don't feel the need, that's OK. If you do feel the need but don't have the time, I suggest you make time. I went for about 10days before Christmas without having one because I was under big work pressure. I felt 'low' so when I did make time, my mood improved too. I try to do it every day even if I don't feel the urge and I chat with a few people who encourage me because they like to watch It's not as good as sex but it's better than the alternative, imv.
Maybe one way to not be depressed by things is to stop making it a numbers game? I wish my wife would tell me that I can't get myself off because that would get me doing it anyway and if she gets mad, she just gets mad. I agree with Bazz888; it's okay if you aren't feeling it and, yeah, if you're feeling it and don't have the time, make the time. Yeah, it's not the same as being sucked off or being dick-deep in pussy but it is still very damned pleasurable and, really, if you can't have sex with yourself, something is seriously wrong...
I can't do the numbers. It's too depressing. I sneak in a casual wank off early some mornings when I can, just to drain the balls and feel a little better. It's nowhere near as much fun as sucking off with a bi friend, but that's been 12 years. Doing it with the wife? I've given up trying.
I've never counted wanks. But have counted how often I have sex with my wife (we've both just turned 27). 2023: once in July, once in October.... the time before those was October 2022. with the last 2 times having to stop early because she was in pain and I didn't finish..... fun Can't exactly blame her for it, but it's depressing.
Had no action so far this year except a few masturbation sessions. It's not that I don't have the wants. I just haven't had the time or resources. In the last several years the number of times having sex with a woman has decreased. Partly due to COVID and partly due to age, time, and availability. I've got some issues to work through medically and hopefully once I get back on track my fucking frequency will increase. But for now I'm pretty happy that I have that to look forward to as I struggle with what has been set before me.
I am a solo masturbator and have been for a long time. I have grown to like it that way. Lots of freedom and no worries. I have been a once a day for a long time as well. I dont see any changes in 2024
