Delayed ejaculation or the inability to finish?

Hi,

I am 49...
Has anyone experienced this in the past? I have had this happen from time to time for a day or two, but I have not been able to get to the finish line for almost two weeks and it's been frustrating. It's also been stressful on my girlfriend.
I get aroused and have good sensitivity, but never ejaculate.

Thanks!

 

Medications? That’s the #1 side effect of anti-depressants.

 

Doxy and an anti fungal.
Kratom for 12 years for pain.

 

Erections are easy and remain hard for a long time. I do hav viagra if needed since I have dealt with anxiety before.
No med changes.
I take kratom for nerve pain and have for years.
I just stopped taking sleeping pills

I also have a blood disorder called MGUS

It's weird, I get so close to orgasm, right on edge... Forever..

Rich

 

Anxiety. As each love making session comes and goes without ejaculation the urgency to ejaculate escalates. You are trying to hard. It's like in golf. You know you can make that 3 foot putt. You've done it many times before. But lately you have been standing over the ball and thoughts begin haunt you. You back off and re-look at it. Stand over the putt again and push it wide. It's all in the mind. It has happened to myself before where I am having a nice time fucking a beautiful woman and I can't finish. All of the visual stimulation is there. Her pussy feels great around my cock. Everything is going as it should but I couldn't orgasm with ejaculation. It was after contemplating the outcome of one such session I decided to just enjoy being able to fuck a beautiful woman and not be concerned whether I ejaculate or not. Now I always make it a point to be satisfied that I can still get it up at my age and I am attractive enough that a fine looking woman will have sex with me. Ejaculation and orgasm is just a bonus. I haven't had a problem since I adopted this mindset. Maybe you give it a try, relax, and enjoy the sex.

 

(Please take this in the jest that it’s supposed to be!)

Maybe you had a hard time reaching orgasm because you spent too much time playing with your putter!

I know, but the door was open...

 

Lol..
I haven't been playing with it. Lol.
This has never happened before. It's not that I have a hard time now...
It's that it just doesn't happen. At least not lately!
Very frustrating for us both.
Thanks guys...

 

She had a crazy high libido, like me and I am going to just relax and just let it happen. I won't see her this week so it's d chance to take time off and hopefully come back relaxed!

Thanks guys!

 

Hey guys, thanks for the chat on this one.
It finally happened. Lol.
About time!