it is hard - i still feel like i'm failing compared to the standard and expectations my parents have for me, even though i know those aren't my standards and expectations for myself. but i know, once i'm out on my own, i'll be happy with my decisions because i own them... and yes, we do rock
god we're going through the exact same thing. I need to get out on my own. I haven't since I was 21. I don't know what I am so afraid of...well I do failing.