I pick choice number 2. I am a Stay At Home Mom. I have 2 Little Peanuts. I think you being able to be with your Family more is ultimately the best decision. Children need their parents. They need security, guidance, a strong foundation. I am not saying daycare won't give that to them. I know some Mother's & Father's have absolutely no choice and they have to put their Little One's in daycare. BUT, if you have the choice I would pick number 2. I wish you well