dealing with these types of guys

again...i do treat him nicely. does what he asks. i just want a 2 way street. if it aint happening, im out. im ignoring the assholes cause all you guys are calling me is a whore, slut, shut my legs, i dont deserve the respect

well you dont fucking know me. im pretty damn sure if you met me in life, you'd agree on the respect.

so im taking the people with logical sense advice.

and when i say im doing him a favor, its just my ego talking, just like when he tells me he can get a chick with bigger tits. whoop dee do, i hurt his poor poor feelings just once, but he can say whatever the fuck he wants about me.

no go. either i want respect back or hes back to fuckin fatties. or nothing at all

but really. this topic is old. i have more control now over him so all the harsh words you give me, "dont mean a thang"

 

really???

here's an idea. if you want respect, give respect. don't act like you're god's gift to men, don't act like without you he'll just be a lonely soul fucking fatties...jeez. and by the way, control does not equate to respect.

 

you dont have control over anyone but yourself, get that straight right now little girl- itll save ya a lot of heartache down the road

 

its just how i word myself. you may find it a totally different meaning than i do.

again. i give respect. im prolly the sanest, non bitch girl he'd ever known. words from him. and this is a guy that does not hide anything.

only way im gonna be a bitch, is if im getting no respect, hence why i am sorta acting like a bitch, but i will get him in line

 

Love doesn't have to hurt. It's okay to be by yourself for a while until you meet someone who brings you butterflies and fireworks (even on a bad day).

 

try almost 3 years buddy. im getting tired. im not having fun. i turn into a controlling bitch cause really im doing what guys did to me for the past 4 years.

im working on it though. taking deep breaths. i know ill be a great girlfriend someday and ill make a man happy

 

Stacy, you know what you want. You'll get there!

 

He's a fuckbuddy... Not a boyfriend. Dont be his "slave" but give him enough respect during your times together, as so should he too. He doesnt even give you respect, nor does he want to seem whipped near his friends with you.. I dont think you're looking for a fuckbuddy in terms. I see jealousy and more. Plus sex does not wrap a guy around the finger... It makes him crawling for more, but there are other "cows in the field to milk"

 

Being a fuck buddy does not imply a lack of respect.

It is only when it is combined with bullshit and games that it implies that, and the same applies to any type of relationship from friendship to marriage...

 

My god a girl as good looking as you struggling to find someone better than that?

Where are your types in Australia....

What the fuck is the world coming to?

 

Perhaps the inner self is clouding that perceived outer beauty...

 

100% agree with this.

 

again. im in a comfortable place with him

no need for repeated posts. i learned what i was doing. now im just being myself. that what he likes...he even flirts with the ideal of dating the more im myself. hes open to me, im open to him. the best sex will come out of it when you respect another more and more.

i told him i dont wanna argue anymore and for us to give a certain face when we're about to get annoyed. i stop, he stops. thats the respect i wanted.

but overall. i think he likes messing with me.

 

Sounds like a much better situation than when the thread started =)

 

well i took some of the advice, i agreed and i didnt agree with, and put them together.