Argh, I hate making this thread but this is really starting to annoy me. I met my gf about 2 months ago and we've been going out for the past 1 and a half months. We're pretty tight so far, always wanting to see each other, etc etc. It's going quite well. Only problem is, I would consider this my first proper relationship, whereas she's been in heaps. She's also much more experienced than me sexually (I lost my V card to her... she lost hers when she was 14). I don't know why, but the SMALLEST things trigger my insecurities, like, we were talking about sex the other night, and I mentioned I ran out of condoms and asked her if she had any. She said "nah, I threw all mine out". now this seems like nothing, right? but for me, all i could think about was what and who she had used them for previously, and it got me so upset, not because I was hurt that she had had sex with her previous boyfriends (this is only natural), but what annoyed me was how upset I let myself get over something that's not even an issue. On the other hand, do you guys think that she should be a little more considerate of how she talks when shes around me? She says stuff like "this is where we used to meet <insert high school here> boys during high school"... all i can think is how easy she is. Am I just being too insecure or do you guys think that some of the above quotes would get you a little upset too? Meh, maybe I'm just venting?