Dealing with being cheated on

Hmmm, have to disagree with that last post, she tried calling me a few times last month but I only picked up once, last week and told her to not dial my number again as I am still pissed, try next year.

I still haven't had sex with another woman since though, over a month now.

I'm just more active at my university, gym, sports teams, lectures, etc and yes I party, but I don't want to deal with women for some time, unless that's a one night stand which several friends can help me out with if I feel the need to ask.

 

You seem to be dealing with it pretty well.

 

Yea, I caught my fiance, after being together for four years, cheating on me a week before our wedding. It sucks, but atleast I found out a week before and not a week after. I am moving to a new city and starting over. I cant stay around here anymore, everywhere I go I am reminded of her.

It does get easier!

 

orgy!

 

Inkshrink-I dont know how you do it, def. a better person than myself. And giving how it affects you physically...I dunno-I couldnt do it.

 

It's not easy.

Everyday is a struggle.

 

More power to you sister. Be strong and go forward. I hope whatever happens works out for your best in the end!

 

Maximus, the above posters only mean to antagonize you and/or push their own beliefs onto you. Don't be angered.

People like this want you to believe that you are selfish to desire an exclusive relationship and that if you really love someone you should be okay with them fucking someone else. They think their view on relationships is "enlightened" and that you haven't seen the light because you still desire the exclusive union.

Just remember that these types of people are also the reason that venereal diseases continue to be a growing health concern and don't let yourself be antagonized by those who would belittle your concerns and label them as archaic or egotistical.

Regarding your situation Maximus, don't be discouraged. You can't win them all and neither can anyone else. Cheers. :cheers2:

 

Enlightened, no, its not as simple as an us vs them situation

LOl, that sounded a tad bitchy




Maximus is 22 and in college, whats best for him?, that he mopes around for the next 12 months over a girl that wasnt that into him in the first place, getting no where?

My advice would be to go around slam a whole bunch of average looking chicks so you learn to last more than 5 minutes and improve your game, they'll be appreciative, you'll be a better lover and in 5 years time you'll have your PhD in chicks.

Despite every thing they say to the contrary, the truth about girls is they dont marry the guys every other girl wants to fuck

 

This is not as common as you think.

A lot of people around me are in or were recently in multy year relationships.

I think society's changed.

There's a very small percentage of guys who hunt for one night stands or short term relationships.

Even guys who like clubbing usually go with a group and for the fun of it and don't necessarily go to get laid, in a couple instances I went and I don't like clubbing but a friend of mine would get hit on and he would laugh and say he doesn't want any part of that.

I would honestly say 1 in 5 girls after first year are okay with pursuing a purely sexual relationship. And we all know how at least half of those end up wanting more.

It's not 1964, it's not 1977 and it's not 1986. lol.

Or maybe it's Canada, I don't know but the only girls who just want to fuck are pretty dirty.

 

Whoa. This is impressive.

It is almost impossible to come across someone who has some perspective on this issue. Most people today seem to think life is one big rap video, and all girls are fucking like jack-rabbits.

Actually, heterosexual one-night stands are rarer than ever.