Dating Outside Of Your Race...Could You???

im jamaican, every girl i ever dated was white or mexican... dont kno why... just how it is.

 

prolly a SoCal thnig

 

everyone always says race and color doesn't matter. but honestly i think it does matter. i am mixed and although we mixed babies maybe cute it isn't that cute when we are being called oreo cookie and half breed ect.ect..... because we all know people can be cruel. i am proud of my heritage but i don't mix races, that is my choice. i think it comes down to attraction, if your attracted to asians date asians if your attracted to mexicans then date mexicans. do the world a favor and date someone that you are attracted to whether black, white, brown or green.you fall in love with the heart not the skin.as long as there are different races there will always be racism so don't be fooled into thinking that "in this day and age" bullshit.

 

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expected from mr. i don't give a damn about anything but smokin, drinkin,and trippin. grow up. i have dated puerto rican, blacks, whites mexicans, wompanoag indians, to name a few and i prefer whites, sorry to hurt your feelings.

 

I see absolutely no problem with it
why would there be?


love is love

 

Cowboi_Blue... Are you white?

 

You make no sense. You don't mix races yet you are mixed? I suppose that you will never hook up with anyone then huh?

 

what don't you get ??? I'M MIXED, WHICH OBVIOUSLY, I HAD NO CONTROL OVER. i am half black and half white. I HAVE DATED BLACKS AND WHITES AND I PREFER WHITES, GET IT NOW??????????!!!!!!IT'S NOT A RACE ISSUE IT'S WHAT I PREFER. AND IF I DATE A WHITE GUY HOW AM I MIXING RACES I'M HALF WHITE JUST LIKE IF I DATED A BLACK GUY IT WOULDN'T BE MIXING BECAUSE I'M HALF BLACK, YOU SEE HOW THAT WORKS?OH NAD BYE THE WAY I AM WITH SOMEONE FOR SEVEN YEARS AND HE'S WHITE, AM I MIXING RACES ?OH MAYBE HALF OF ME IS.

 

If U Have Never Been In A Interracial Relationship It's Very Easy To Say Oh Love Is Blind And Color Doesn't Matter And Blah Blah Blah, But If U Have ,then U Should Know That People And Family Can Be Very Cruel And Judgemental. You Get Snickers And Stares And What The Fuck Is Wrong With Them, And Then If You Tuff It O Ut And The Children Start Coming Then Your Child Is Constantly Haraassed. As Long As There Are Differnet Races There Will Never Be Racial Harmony, It Just Makes Sense That Way, We All Think Our Race Is The Superior One.so Lets Be Realistic We Have All Had The Racist Streak In Us And We Have All Made The Comments Or Laughed At The Racist Jokes And We May Even Have Locked A Door When One Of Them Approach Our Vehicle So The Hypocracy Should Really Stop Here. I Know This Is A "hippie" Forum About Peace And Love And Yadayadayada , But Let's Not Forget To Be Honestwith Ourselves.
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OBVIOUSLY THE WELL USED HIPPIE TERM "HUMAN RACE" IS ABSOLUTELY RIDICULOUS.EVERYONE WOULD LOVE FOR THERE TO BE PEACE, HARMONY , RAINBOWS AND BUTTERFLYS BUT THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS INTERACIAL RELATIONSHIPS CAN REEK HAVOC ON ONE;'S SOUL. HAVING TO PUT UP WITH THE COMMENTS AND THE STARES IS ENOUGH TO MAKE YOU RETHINK YOUR DECISSION. LISTEN I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE I AM INTERACIAL, IT WAS AND IS NOT FUN TO LISTEN TO PEOPLES IGNORANT BULLSHIT BECAUSE YOUR PARENTS MADE YOUR RACIAL CHOICE FOR YOU. HOW MANY OF YOU WHO SAY " IT WOULDN'T BOTHER ME, OR OF COURSE I WOULD DATE ANOTHER RACE" ACTUALLY HAVE INTERACIAL CHILDREN?AND IF U DO HAVE CHILDREN WHICH I'M SURE YOU WOULD LOVE AND NURTURE THEM, ARE YOU READY TO DEAL WITH THE REPERCUSSIONS OF YOUR IDEALS OF LOVEING EVERYONE AND CLAIMING THERES IS ONLY ONE RACE? THE HUMAN RACE? COME ON TELL THAT TO YOUR KID WHEN SOMEONE'S FUCKING WITH HIM BECAUSE HE'S A MEMBER OF THE HUMAN RACE..

 

ok i agree with the last part of what you said. Im in one now and this isnt my first and yes people give weird or mean looks lol some even look confused but who honestly....who the fuck cares. i find it funny and pathetic that people seem to care so much about what a complete stranger is doing with their life. I do think you have to be stronger to be in an interracial relationship but i think that level of depends on where you are. Youre going to have different experiences in different places. Bottom line is - if you love the person youre with for who they are then youre love will overcome the racist jokes, comments, rude looks, and everything else youll be faced with. It just wont matter. Live your life the way you want to with the person you want to and dont let your friends, family, or anyone else have a say on who youre allowed to love. And when you have kids you teach them right from wrong. You tell them how fucked up people can be in a way so that theyll understand the problem is with the other people who cant get over seeing a mixed couple and mixed children - not them.

 

DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERNCE? RACE is a distinct population of humans distinguished in some ways from other humans based on skin color, facial features, ancestry and genetics. ETHNICITY, is a sense of being different than other groups based on cultural traditions , national origin, history, religion, dress and language, not bilogiacal or from physical differences......

 

who doesn't teach there kids RIGHT FROM WRONG? and of course i know what people say doesn't matter,i'm not a fuckin idiot but like i said tell that to your kid who has the black eye. abuse from anyone can be detrimental to your childs development. people wonder why kids are overdosing and hanging themselves at such young ages or how about all the kids that go on shooting rampages or the young girls trying to be thin, TELL THEM WHAT PEOPLE SAY DOESN'T MATTER.

 

are you serious? youd be surprised

kids are cruel and it takes a lot to be accepted. Yes you might get bullied as a kid about your background but you keep your family together because that should be the most important thing. Like i said, interracial couples are harder to be in usually but you know what youre potentially getting yourself into as well as your children if you have any. But thats no reason stop yourself from dating someone of another race because youre afraid of what might happen later on. If something like a black eye happens to your kid...um you handle it and do your best to make sure it doesnt happen again. I persoanlly would tell me kids not to take shit from anyone.

 

Well I Meant Normal People Teach Their Kids Right From Wrong.the Point Is There Is Always Going To Be Differnet Races And Black Eyes. Period.you Seem To Think That I Won't Or Haven't Been In An Intercail Relaitonship, I'm Half Black Half White And I Have Dated All Kinds And Currently I Prefer White Men. The Differnce For Me Is What I Am Attracted Too. And Currnetly That Is White Guys . My Parents Chose My Race For Me So I Have No Choice Whether To Date Interacially, I'm Interracial .

 

Ohh And Kjhippielove You Look So Much Like My Little Sister It's Amazing...

 

spooky

 

i just recently "found out" that spanish guys wont date black girls. i mean, no resentment but its sad and at least in my area i didnt kno the racial divide was so strong. but i have a spanish male friend who simply stated it was the culture and it just doesnt happen.

 

fuck spain