Dating a dude that's prettier than you...

Haha....You know what I meant

He acts his age and doesnt try to be all grown up and be a real , serious man. I like that.

 

Yeah, jealousy can be a bitch...

And ok

 

don't worry, we never fully grow up at all

 

Yeah, I noticed that...And I like it


God, I wish I was a kid again

 

it'll happen when you're about 30.

 

*psssssssst*

you are a kid

 

my boy actually is a pretty boy model. Okay, not like REAL modeling, but for like H&M and stuff. He's lovely. And I am grossly inferior. It used to bother me, but now it just makes me feel super hot.

 

I say go for it.

You don't want to go down the slippery-slope of dating people who are half-pretty because of their personality.

Get the whole package and assimilate THE PANIC of your insecurities.

Fuck beauty on the inside.

 

haha.

can't a person have both?

 

Janja, no dude is prettier than you. Men just arent that pretty

 

Grossly inferior ? Fuck that. I am not grossly inferior. Forget this thread.

 

That's precisely what I'm advocating. Both.

The only problem I could see in that scenario is that a lot of men date down because of the vicissitudes of having to initiate.

But in the particular case of Piaf, I don't see how the guy could possibly be dating down.

 

I've found that the better looking a person (male or female) is the more likely they are to be snotty and conceited and otherwise feel entitled to treat people they deem to be beneath them like garbage. Even if someone so aesthetically pleasing consents to a relationship there's a likelihood that once they find someone "better" they'll dispose of the relationship like used toilet paper.

Not all good looking people are like this though but I've found them to mature a hell of a lot slower than the rest of us uglies.

 

my older brother was like that. it comes from people treating you like a glowing god every day of your life because they're shallow and easily blown away by good looks. pfft.

 

If they're cool people, good. If they happen to look good, well all the better.

 

Right.

So in the end it seems the uglies are just as immature?

 

yes. pathetic. so when you see a pretty person acting entitled and assinine, think back in your history and consider whether or not you've contributed to it in someone else.

 

Exactly.

This whole notion that ugly people have better personalities (even if on average) than pretty people is oh so insecure and compensational.

 

Enablers really. Just like in addiction which is just a behavior with a drug or booze as a prop.

Most people are only as mature as they absolutely need to be

 

"Good-looking" people may have their defects, but so do the less-fortunate looking.