Dad getting on my nerves

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You are so ungrateful...

Why don't you do your parents a favor and move out?

I'd be ashamed of you if I were your parents...have a little respect.

 

from now and then parents feel the need to treat us as kids... they can really be very strict, but they allways worry if we have already eaten or something like that. in my familly is kind of a familly tradition to worry about food. All my familly is like that!! for instance, you should see how my grandmother who is almost 90 years old is like to her 60 year old son! they just care! yes, it can be boring (i know what i am talking about, like asking 100 times if you want more to eat, and things like that...).
try not to worry about a petty thing like that... you are lucky that they care! (even though i know how it can be tiresome!).
next time just joke about it like "yes, i already had my tea and my bottle..." or just smile and say "don't worry, you worry to much!"

 

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i'm not sure they will change... you just have to deal with it. even though i know it can be tiresom, try to laugh about it and ask them the same thing. Actually i think they might be give you hints that maybe they would like you to worry about them as well... but never mind that, i think this may even confuse you even more.

they are your parents, they love you, so why make such a big deal out of it? if they didnt give a damn about you maybe you could have reasons to complain. usually there are not so many people who love you as much as your parents do (this applies to everybody) so just don't worry about a "problem" that it isn't even one. be glad about it and try to be patient.

 

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i was actually talking about the fact that they treat you like a baby (or so you say). they will not change, because they worry about you (like every parent does, even though some just do not show it). so get over the fact that they treat you like that, accept it, laugh about it... But it isn't a problem, so stop whining about it.
Acctually taking it so much at heart shows even more that you are not mature enough, try to show them that you are a grown men (cof cof) in other ways... treating them badly doesn't get you anywahere, you spend your energie arguing with them and they spen theirs and nothing happens... just a lot of bad energie around.
just relax about things!

 

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I'm twenty three, moved out of home and engaged. My Mum still rings me and asks if i'm getting enough sleep (i have issues if i don't sleep enough), or if i need her to do something for me. I love it. It makes me feel cared for and loved. It sounds like you have wonderful parents. So what if they argue? Everyone does. Appreciate them for what they are, they won't be around forever.

 

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17 isn't too young to move out. I moved out at 17, was still in university, worked part time (roughly 30 hours a week), had a roommate and supported myself. Admittedly, there are different living costs where you are compared to here, but "too young... at 17" is bullshit
Nobody's asking you to buy a house either, most folks rent when they first move out.

 

I wasn't saying taht people don't have differences
but the "woe is me, I can't live on my own for I am only 17" approach doesn't cut it with me
If you're of legal age to get a job and drive, you can live on your own. Hell, you don't even need to be able to drive really, just know the public trans routes between home and work.
Any 17 year old could make it work if they tried hard enough. Getting up teh gumption to do it is the problem for most though

 

not sure if you post this stuff just to get a rise out of people or because you truly are a retard - "my dad pisses me off" , "people call me gay" wah wah wah - my advice is to hang with your folks, at least they talk to you, which is better than you're likely to come across with people who have the choice of socialising with you. You're pathetic.

Peace out, loser
Christos

 

So your mom bought you food so that you could eat and you dont even say thank you, how ungreatful...if I buy food for somebody and dont get a thanks its a slap in the face 4 that nigga

 

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You sure talk big here on the internet...Apparently you can hold that in your real life.

 

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Is it just my imagination or has Chris deleted all his messages?