Dad getting on my nerves

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by chris_1661, May 31, 2006.

  1. chris_1661

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  2. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    Um, quite frankly, you sound like you take things way too seriously. Saying thank you for having someone pick up your dinner isn't too much to ask someone to do.

    I say thank you a lot...that makes me a polite person, not anything else.
     
  3. ihmurria

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    you seem like the annoying git sometimes

    seriously, getting upset because someone complimented you on having good manners for one damn moment in your life? Get over it
     
  4. .Hannah.

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    Parents do that. It's their way of saying to you AND themselves they might have done something right in raising you.

    Don't forget these were the people CHANGING YOUR DIAPERS. Grow up and act like an adult, be gracious.

    If you made being polite a HABIT, perhaps people wouldn't be making such a big deal out of it.
     
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  6. Kinky Ramona

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    If you can't be nice, you won't ever have friends. Sorry, that's the reality. You're not willing to change and there's nothing any of us here can say to you that will help because you are not willing to take advice.
     
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    No offence...but you'll probley take it offencivley anyways. But you sound like you do need parenting. I know I know Im 15 and what the hell am I doing telling you what to do. Well first off I respect my parents and I would have said thank you to my mom no question asked. Maybe your dad seems like an annoying git because you don't even have the respect for your parents to say THANK YOU! Man ... If thats what your dad said to you "hows dinner?" and you replayed with a "why?" thats pretty immutare! I mean a simple question with a simple answer... Good or Gross Or alright. I mean man when your fathers dead and gone your going to regret how you treated him! Good luck with those manners
     
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    Ah.... you speak true words Kinky Ramona
     
  9. DancerAnnie

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    Well, your parents were the ones changing your diapers as a baby, I'm sure :rolleyes:

    Well, there's a difference between being nasty and being cautious. Being nasty gets you absolutely nowhere in life. People begin to hate you and don't want to be around you...and forget getting a girlfriend if you have a "nasty" side. Caution is something you want to have, of course, in life because it keeps you from getting hurt sometimes and being perpetually used.
     
  10. ihmurria

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    this is getting to be such a joke
     
  11. DancerAnnie

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    I know...I don't think someone can possibly be this dense and this irritable.

    chris...you should eat some flax-seed...it will make you feel tons better.
     
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  14. homeschoolmama

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    Parents do things that annoy their children. Sorry, but it's life. I'm 30, and my parents STILL annoy me... AND try to parent me from time to time. They really can't help it, that's just what parents do. They've been doing it from the day you were born, and it's tough for them to all of a sudden cut the cord & quit completely.

    To me it doesn't sound like your parents were trying to overly mother you... it sounds like your dad was trying to give you a gentle reminder & your mom was trying to "soothe your ruffled feathers" when you complied under pressure. It happened to me ALL the time when I was a teen. You know, dad gets bent out of shape over something you did/didn't do and when you do what he says just to get him off your back, your mom tries to make light of the situation?!?

    I'd just let it go. Is one little thank-you really worth getting so upset over?
    love,
    mom
     
  15. DancerAnnie

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    I'm a girl...and you're being nasty to me.

    If a girl sees you are nasty/mean to others, she's not going to like you, sorry, it's the truth.
     
  16. chris_1661

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  17. ihmurria

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    absolutely true

    chris, it's the net. Don't write out what you think right away because you come off as full of rage, as unbelievably angry over a damn suggestion. Take some time to calm down before you type shit, because if you continue with this crap we're gonna end up just giving up
     
  18. moon_flower

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    Since when does being polite make you gay?
     
  19. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    It seriously sounds like everyone this kid knows is some fuckin' Chav.
     
  20. DancerAnnie

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    No kidding. I must be a raging lesbian :)
     

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