Cyclical Relationships

yeah I'm pretty sure you guys are right. The logical part of my mind knows everything you are saying is right, but when I talk to her or when I touch her that all goes out the window.

 

Don't get me wrong, I understand what you mean - I hold my opinions on this sort of thing because of personal experiences.

Lots of people get in those cycles - and even when they're not inherently bad people, it ruins the possibility for a healthy relationship to ever exist between them. And when one of them IS a bad person.... it'll ruin your whole life.